Saturday, March 16, 2013

The Nonsense Of Spirit Husbands And Wives

There are some things that are just unbelievable when you first hear about them. But then the greatest shock comes when you discover that almost everyone around you believes that those things are true. This is the shock I got when I recently heard about the concept of spiritual husbands (sometimes called spirit husbands or night husbands) and spiritual wives.

My wife and I were driving from visiting a home in the evening when I turned on the car radio and tuned to a local radio station. There was a preacher speaking on a live radio programme. He was evidently campaigning for an overnight prayer meeting that was scheduled to take place at his church the next day.

What I found absurd was that his panacea for everyone who called in was, “Come to the overnight prayer meeting tomorrow and receive your deliverance.” However, as absurd as this was, it was not the most shocking. It was when he began to tell all the women who were calling in to share their marital problems that they had spiritual husbands who were behind their domestic woes. I had never heard of this and thought the guy was just crazy.

Well, I am the one who was in for a shock. The following day, while talking to some theological students from our densely populated townships in Lusaka, they were surprised that I had never heard about this phenomenon. It was common talk where they lived and ministered. So, they took time to explain it to me.

The belief is that when your marriage is breaking up due to a husband who seems to have lost interest in you, or you have serious gynaecological problems, or you are having miscarriages, then it is because you have a spirit called a spiritual husband causing all this in the spiritual realm. It is also the case if you are getting on in years and no man is seriously approaching you for marriage. It means you have a spiritual husband blocking other men. You need deliverance in order to have a wholesome marriage or for your body to function normally.

Usually, the diagnosis involves being asked about your dreams. If you have either seen yourself swimming (for the most stubborn ones are marine spirits), or missing your menstrual period, or becoming pregnant, or breastfeeding, or vomiting, or going shopping or having sex with a man who is not your husband, or having a miscarriage, or getting married, or about to get killed in a dream, then this is sure evidence that a spiritual husband has entered into your life. You need deliverance. If the “man of God” tells you that you are having dreams in which you are having sex with someone and you deny it, he then tells you that your spiritual husband wipes it off your memory through demonic manipulation.

As usual, there are many benighted souls who are ready to testify that they went for such deliverance meetings where the “man of God” prayed for them to be delivered from their spiritual husbands and since then their dreams have returned to normal and their marriages are supposedly back on track. For those who were not being proposed, after the deliverance sessions they have found spouses and are now married and are living happily ever after! Sadly, there are many, many more whose marriages would have been salvaged if they had gone through proper Christian marriage counselling. These are the ones who suffer quietly and are told that they lacked faith or they did not have a breakthrough.

Of course, this teaching is gender neutral. Men having marital problems are also being taught about spiritual wives who are affecting their marriages. The only difference is that often it is women who fall prey to such nonsense—as was the case that evening when so many of them called during that live radio programme that my wife and I listened to as we drove home.

What shall I call this teaching about spiritual husbands (and wives), which is in vogue today here in Africa? It is nonsense! Here are at least four reasons why:

1. All this is not in the Bible. We have gone right back to the dark ages where we believe everything that “priests” say without checking it with what the Bible says. As in the dark ages, stories doing their rounds are becoming larger than life. Spiritual husbands are changing shape and showing up in all kinds of places at night. Even when these false teachers use the Bible, they wrest it out of its context. One such teacher used Matthew 13:25, which says, “But while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away,” to teach that spiritual husbands come at night to sleep with women!

2. There is a superstitious view of dreams that is totally unhealthy. If I am lusting after someone I am likely to dream romantically about him or her. If I am having problems to conceive, I am likely to dream that one day I am pregnant. If I am longing for a job, I am likely to dream that one day I land myself the job of my dreams. If I have longed to meet President Obama, I am likely to dream that I am having a meal with him and his wife, Michelle, at the White House. It is sheer common sense. Dreams simply live out the wishes and fears of our lives.

3. There is a failure to handle moral issues the way the Bible handles them. Those involved in sexual sin are being told that the blame is on spiritual husbands or wives and all they need is deliverance. Responsibility is shifted from them to some powerful forces. The Bible calls people guilty of sin to repentance, urging them to find forgiveness from God through faith in Christ. Many of these women (and the men!) being counselled to be delivered from spiritual husbands (and wives) are unregenerate. They need to be saved by the power of the gospel. Yet, there is no effort to show them that it is sin in their lives that is destroying their marriages. If the Lord were to save them, he would give them a new power to enable them to joyfully live in honour of their marriage vows and obligations.

4. There is a failure to counsel people with biblical principles of marriage. Women who were calling in to that radio programme, talking about constant fights with their husbands, were not being asked whether they were observing the biblical blueprint for healthy marriage relationships. Husbands ought to love their wives as Christ loved the church. Wives ought to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ. No, the “man of God” would go straight into telling the women that they had spiritual husbands and needed deliverance.

Let me say it again, this teaching about spiritual husbands and wives is sheer nonsense! It is yet another lie of the devil that is being peddled by deluded souls masquerading as spiritual teachers and preachers. They are blind and they are leading others who are blind into spiritual and moral ditches. Any teaching that is not based squarely on the Bible is not worth listening to. It is nonsense!

157 comments:

  1. Right on the money as they would say. Absolute nonsense.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Ignorant pastor under estimating the devil's power.Spirit wife and husband exist.I Have been through this until one day I prayed alone while I was a best wicked person.Jesus rescued me.This night visiting woman has become aggressive and start attacking me.

      Delete
    2. Brother Kawabata:
      You sound logical, but you were under a spell when you wrote the article.

      How can one tell?

      Demons always reason without proper reference and try to prove that they are not:

      Ephesians 6:10. The fight is not against flesh and blood. This script should have guided you.

      The primary way God speaks is thru dreams.

      You are right, if your desire is to meet Obama you will dream about him.

      Similarly if you desire to have sexual relations with his wife. But the big question is WHY WILL DEVELOP SEXUAL DESIRES TOWARDS HIS WIFE.

      You may say it is because they fail to uphold the Bible. Yes I agree with you, however it is the same spirit/demon that hinders them to uphold the script which manifest in a form husbandry and wifery.

      Logic does not make it right. None of the 4 reasons you have are quoting scriptures to reference your point.

      Proverbs 2:11
      Proverbs 3:5
      Job 28:20

      Demons are real in as much as Angels are real. Demons have names, functions, ranks and report to chief demons.

      It is human nature to obey God buy when humans fail to do so, there's always the 3rd person just like in the garden of Eden. Satan deceived the woman. Hence there many woman that are deceived into this trap. Check how the demons enters the body

      Delete
    3. This comment has been removed by the author.

      Delete
    4. I believe that if a demon can have can have sex with you in a dream you can have a spiritual spouse m even children. Many people think its just a dream but it is not. Just one day or night when you have the dream ask for more and watch how you will start to have what ever sexual dream you want. But they are evil spirits. Tell them to reveal themselves in the dream while you are in the dream and they will and you will be disgusted and probably beat up in the dream becaused they have been found out. they don't like that. Whats wrong with praying against a spiritual spouse. What harm can it do? I would pray pray pray. Even if its your husband in the dream wife in the dream you are having sex with pray against it because that's not your spouse. Yes spiritual spouses are real and the only reason its called a spiritual spouse is because it is happening in the spiritual realm. When you sleep your spirit is interacting with whatever is going on in the spiritual realm. Pray!!!! yes they do cause you damage, you cant keep a husband a wife or you always in strife or your potential husband or wife will not commit to you. Pray! Look it up and read for yourself. Its your life and what you have experienced.

      Delete
    5. If you are saying spiritual spouses exist then by common we know that those are demonic spirits so how can a born again child of God whose spirit is married to Christ be married to a demonic spirit at the same time?

      Delete
    6. Sorry to sound this way, though you're free to believe whatever u wish o believe in.
      PLS NOTE THESE:
      Any believer or pastor that opposes d reality or existence of spirits husbd/wife is a blind initiate of kingdoms of darkness. A blind initiate is one who is initiated into a satanic group without his consent or knowledge.
      After a believer's encounter wt Jesus Christ, from here Salvation is taken place in your spirit,our duty is to work it out to afect our soul and body, how? by Eph.4:20-30. We hv a great duty to obey and submit to d HolySpirit by separating from our old involvements. Every sinner is possessed wt different kinds of demons and a believer is not cos of Jesus Christ has taken over d spirit, yeah! Salvation takes place in your spirit and flows down to your soul af body as u kp surrendering. So, a believer can be oppressed, demonised or influenced. After salvation a true believer shld shld deprogram and reprogram old contaminations through strong warfare prayers, contaminations which he got into bf acceptance of Jesus Christ. The initial Salvation repositions us Gal.1:12-14, but to enjoy your total freedom continues as study d scripture more, increase in prayers ( not less than 2hrs) daily, separate from all known sins ad uncleanness ad maintain daily relationship wt Jesus Christ in worship too.
      Again, look for genuine MOG around u or your pastor if he believes in prayer of deliverance to minister deliverance to u.
      There are 5 kinds or different spirits that abuse people sexually ad claim ownership of them in marriages.
      For more details! Contact me for help.
      REV MARSHAL IKPEAMA ESQ.
      *2348033044569

      Delete
  2. Here is my suggestion. Send this article to the Post Newspaper for the benefit of many that might not get on the Net.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. This is so true,the bible clearly states that marriage is physical,not spiritual,that's why there won't be marriage in the coming life because we will function as spirit beings
      Funny thing it the christians that are into such,how can a christian go for deliverance for such...there's no way darkness and light can mix,how can the so called spiritual husband function in some one who has the light of Christ in them
      My people perish because of lack of knowledge,that's what it is,people are ignorant to the truth

      Delete
    2. If marriages are simpky physical why pray for them, praying is a spiritual matter not so? You're absolutely ignorant to think that marriages which is ordained of God is simply a physical element. Before anything was formed it was spiritual, your spirit is housed in a physical body. Ephesians clearly states that we do not fight against flesh and blood and highlights the spiritual dark forces we are in constant war with.
      Speak not if you have no knowledge of something. It exists. The reason these spirits attack people is because doors are left open, maturbation, pornography and any other elements are open doors which attract these spirits.to say that they don't exist is ignorance. And that entire article is baseless no scripture used yet its a Christian argument.

      Delete
    3. The devil is subtle.If he were not so, we would all worship the true God of Israel.If angels exist,then there is also a parallel system which is used to ensure people.To deny that spiritual husbands and wives exist is to show ignorance.

      Delete
  3. I think the only demonic activity here is what's behind the false teachers. It's so sad that people submit themselves to rubbish like this from ignorance. It doesn't just happen in Africa either. All kinds of pseudo spiritual nonsense gets propagated by the hyper pentecostals here in Australia too. People need to be careful, if you start asking for spiritual problems you will get them.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html
      Check this and think again. You can read much more if you want. Don't be sure you are right ....

      Delete
    2. Jesus Christ did not say that there will be no marriage in the spirit world but he said in heaven. there are wick spirit these set of spirit are so connected to the material world(our World) and they wish to partake in the activity of our world personally i believe the reason why Jesus never commended that anyone should be stoned to death for breaking the laws was becos he knows that the forces which makes us do some thing is way beyond what we can control. As a rsult why he was on earth he did alot of casting out of Demons

      Delete
    3. when i was below the age of 8 i was abuse by a lady in the compound she would tickle my penis with are toes and feet before i got to 20 years of age i would see my self in dreams with strange beings looking half human and something i cant explain but real scaring and in this dream o was not afraid of the creature and we would have sex i could barely see the face clear but she was not a pretty lady as i would have desired but i would see my self making love to it. this was on between the age of 12 and 19years. later i became prayerful bcos it was no longer funny i could not go out if not i may have this dream and make mess of my self. as time passed on its stop from having sex to Romance. why this was happening i was still a virgin at the age of 27 i loss my virginity thinking it would stop but it did not currently am 33 this year am a good thinker, good with my hands and skillful with HND from Petroleum Training Institute but Still no Job, moving from one per time earning to another. i read on another platform that this may be as a result of spirit wife who dose not want me to be happy and have a family of my own but rather will do anything to have me to her self, i have had only 2 girls friends in my live, the first was the one who dis-virgin me after i told her my story thinking it will stop and the last one left me because i don't have a good job. seriously i don't know what to do i have prayed but i don't know the right place to go for deliverance.I want to be Happy and have a family of my own my elders brother is working and my younger brother who just finished his ND is working in Port harcourt. For those saying the bible they read says and did not say let me tell you that the bible we read is only an edited bible. The forbidding book of the new testament or Eden was abducted by the early Christians whom where close to the time of Christ have you ask your self why was it removed in the early 1760's do your research well.

      Delete
  4. Spot on! Pastor this teaching about spiritual wives and husbands, is as wide spread as sand on the beach. I wish you could also write something on 'SEED sowing' as offerings in the church.
    Cephas

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html

      Delete
    2. Amen.bastards tryn to create ur own fam.just die and kill yoself fr if u gotta dig up to make up.

      Delete
    3. Spot On? What is Spot On? Have you any knowledge of the kinds and names of demons that were inhabiting Legion? Do you really know what's going on in the spiritual realm, considering humans are so earthly (carnally) minded?

      Delete
  5. .... and because your spiritual wife has been draining blood from you each night she spends with you, you are required [after deliverance] to "Re-fill" with a glass of what appears to be water prayed over by a prophet.

    #UTTER NONSENSE#

    ReplyDelete
  6. We are experiencing the same here in Uganda. I understand them somehow, that's where they eat from; they are serving their god called "stomach". Those who go to them for deliverance have to carry some good amount of money with them. Unfortunately, when we try to reason them out here, they start calling us names like "religious people", "dry people", "blind people", "false teachers", etc. But what pains me most is to see them outnumbering us. They are increasing every single day. Brethren, we need to work together as one body and revise strategies of how we can re-gain those lost souls for Christ. Blessings

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. It's a pity you are spiritually obsolete!
      Go to your Bible and read in Genesis where the so s of God married the daughters of men and gave birth to giants. Then ask yourself who were this sons of God???
      They were angels, fallen angels. God destroyed that race and restrained therein from breaking the spirit human barrier to give birth to humans again. But the phenomenon remains in the realm of the spirit in the form of spiritual marriage! Please upgrade yourself.

      Delete
  7. most of ma friends believe in this n ts a shame.
    thanx fr this post it will definitely help me convince them

    ReplyDelete
  8. Apparently there is a whole lot of nonsesical teachings around Pastor; and I am suprised that you never heard of this nonsense.

    ReplyDelete
  9. this article needs to go in the post indeed.... Total nonsense and many fall prey to such lies

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Spiritual hasband and wives are not nonsense. They actualy happen. Just open your eyes

      Delete
    2. Please indicate the scriptures in the BIBLE that support ur claim of spiritual spouses, because I have not found one. Thanks.

      Pastor Thompson.

      Delete
    3. Did you ever thought about why you sometimes hear people's tummies screaming. Did it ever occur to you that a tummy is unable to speak. People make it off as hunger pains which is absolute nonsense. These are the spirits of Satan. The sooner the truth comes to the fore the better for the universe's healing.

      Delete
    4. Pastor, you seem to be correct that there are no spirit husbands. It is the living men who see women that they know will not give them the time of day and because those men are wizards, they violate us women in the night when we sleep and while doing so, inject all kinds of sickness into our bodies, give us low blood count and drain our energy. The day that I become aware of how to destroy them, there are two of them tht people will find with their already dead penises in their hands. I sware by God. I am going to kill them if I find the secret.

      Delete
  10. I pity both the preacher and his followers!

    ReplyDelete
  11. I appreciate your scepticism. But please do not be deceived. Our merciful God protects us from many of the devil's wiles and attacks that we don't know of. Do not underestimate the power of the enemy or his intelligence and do not rely on what you think. A lot of spiritual things don't make sense. Instead before you deviate people from the right path and spread false doctrine talk to God and ask him and as many times as he has proven faithful to me, I know he will answer you. Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. Are you pushing your own agenda or God's?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Please Miss Zie, kindly show us from the Bible, God's Word, this teaching about spirit spouses. But if you can't, why should we believe you? Should we believe what you think or what God says in his Word? God's agenda is clearly spelt out in the Bible and those who pursue agendas not in the Bible are the ones pushing their own agenda. Sadly, among those pushing their own agenda are those who believe in spirit spouses. I hope you can separate yourself from such people and join those who believe that the gospel alone is the power of God for deliverence from sin.

      Delete
    2. Study the book of Gen. 6 verse 4. Who are the sons of God and who are the humans they were sleeping with?

      Delete
    3. Abiding you have such poor theology.please read and interpret scripture in context. And please use your brains. Sorry if I am harsh. Genesis 6 mentions sons of God and Nephilim. How do you get evil spirit beings from that. These so called spiritual husbands and wives are not from God.

      Delete
    4. So which kinds of unclean spirits do you know with your better theology, which are also a result of your interpreting scripture in context? If you know what isn't, then you must conclusively know everything that is.

      Delete
  12. You are not qualified as a Pastor to say that spirit wives and husbands are none sense. Do you have a clue about deliverance? Have you conducted deliverance on someone with a spirit husband and wife. Have you read the book of genesis where spirits were having sex with humans and they gave birth to giants?Read Genesis 6 verse 4. Before you make statements like this check with the holy spirit. My people perish for lack of knowledge.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Spiritual issues dose not have qualification, is given by fasting and prayers

      Delete
    2. Abidini only God can deliver us. If you are a child of God that means that you have been delivered from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light.

      Delete
    3. Mr Cletus, it is man who delivers man using the power of God, more precisely, in the name of Jesus Christ.
      Read the following:
      Ephesians 3:20-21 [Full Chapter]

      Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is AT WORK WITHIN US, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

      Luke 10:19

      I have GIVEN YOU authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you.

      Mark 16:17New International Version (NIV)

      17 And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name THEY will drive out demons; THEY will speak in new tongues;


      Don't be too sure.

      Delete
  13. Allow me to say this. i have experience in this matter...

    i will tell you what spiritual wives and entities is all about.

    I am 40. not married. have always tried without success. and yes. many spiritual wives abound. but who the hell is a spiritual wife to start with.... and what are the other spiritual entities like spiritual husbands? There are also other that you dont regularly hear... spiritual children, spiritual fathers, spiritual masters.

    You could be a married man for example... but another woman, unknown to you, most probably an ex girlfriend, in their mind, again unknown to you about the mind they hold, regard you as as their husband. Mostly they engage some form of witchraft

    To them you are "theirs" and are always using their mental projections to protect their property as it were.

    They will pray or engage a withdoctor to see you don't get into "another" family or that your marriage is as messy and full of problems as possible.

    One such spiritual wife, we have a child

    We are not married.. and have very limited contact. But in her mind I am her husband. and we have a child.... making us a perfect family.

    Never mind she has to drop the child in some place for me to do visitation... because she is otherwise viciously conflictous. My husbandness is in her mind, not in the physical realm.

    That is what makes her a spiritual wife.

    There are other women too, from years ago who will call me up when they see me in some news. In their mind, despite distance and time, we are still together!


    But to understand better, and if you can stomach the real meaning, my mother was a spiritual wife for all her sons. Its okay if you want to argue and trash what i have said.

    A spiritual wife is not a real wife. It is a mind thing.

    You see my mother hated her sons marrying. She wanted to forever be in the position, and to be treated as one would treat their wives, by all the sons. Don’t wonder. She wasn’t motherly. But she wanted to be wife... remember all in her mind despite all the harm she was doing to us.

    I was a recipient of one of her curse when i refused to give her money.

    In her mind she was a wife to her own sons. A spiritual wife. Only us sons we did not know that what she held in her mind. But today i understand it.

    Mistresses and prostitutes are often into spiritual entities. Those that act like children wanting the man to take care of them like a child without responsibilities as spiritual children... dont get mixed up about the christian spiritual babes thing. Here the prostitute wants to stay at home or take up a dead beat job, that they hate, and use their time to manipulate the man to take care of them like babies.

    If the mistress is tyrannical, they will have a conflictous relationship while not allowing it to die. So they are spiritual masters. Meaning you obey and do what they want. And also they can hold both; some times being child, oher times tyrannical.

    I know a woman who cannot realease a song without a pastors okay. She even calls him her spiritual father. Now that is a true statement. Only this father holds her in bondage. She cannot exercise independent will. The father, is, in truth, an oppressive,demoniacal spiritual father.

    Spiritual fathers and masters are found everywhere; at work, a man who think or demands others to fail so they can shine, a business owner who thinks in their mind, the neighbour should not sell the same goods etc

    Again all spiritual entites will engae in some form of religious behaviour such as praying for the said failure - the we shall be the head-kind of prayer. Its all demonic.

    I hope i done my duty in clearing the air about all these spiritual entities like spiritual husbands. I have not mentioned any succubi and sleep stuff.

    How do i know all these... many years of struggling with spirits to be free of possession.


    Thank you.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank You Very Much.... I can't even beleive that the time is here where "Gods" very own are being decieved. Please stop walking with your eyes wide SHUT. The enemy gains ground while the church sleep walks.... Since when does the Bible make a conclusive list of demons??? Where?? And I guess many still think that sickness is soley biological and not spiritual also, right? Right....

      Delete
    2. So Webuzy,supposing that what you are saying is biblical(which is not)whose power do you believe in,God's or the devil's?

      Delete
  14. Pst. I thank you for the other good work you are doing in your called ministry however it saddens me so much to see the Body of Christ going full flagged against each other. Truth is that mostly it is due to the fact that most of our Pst's or Men of God think they are a total package of a body no. And NO. The head can never do what the foot can do nor the tongue what the spine can. On this topic sir i feel you swallowed too soon before chewing through the corn. No offence implied there. Indeed the Bible says they should do much more than what Jesus did. PST. My question is have you ever cast a demon like Lord Jesus did ... HAVE YOU EVER HAD A DEMON SPEAK TO YOU AS THEY DID TO CHRIST AND THE SONS OF THE MAN OF GOD IN THE BIBLE. Pls Pst my humble request is ON WHAT WE DON"T UNDERSTAND AND COMPREHEND LET US ASK GOD IN PRAYER MORE, SEARCH MORE AND THEN WRITE OR SPEAK. In this i think you spoke too soon. The flashy and catchy page you have used shows you started searching but you did not search much. If the bible says human birthed children with spirits who are we not to believe in ministers that have be given eyes to see before human nature. Why should you be the one championing a team of blind leading the blind. There is much more than marriage counselling and much more than the ministry of goodnews which i think you have been called to. Sir I pray you to search again , pray again and then write to us gain. Don't be misled by the 'I know better syndrome'... you may be needing help too. I want to say no one knows it all and also say yes it is true that there are wrong deliverance ministers out there and people must not take anyone on without being sure but to dismiss the ministry of deliverance and the topic of the existence of spiritual beings is as good as saying Christ never really rose from the dead. Search again and tell your flock to seek help and enjoy their Christian life in the Land of the Living. Search Genesis, Samuel and look again at the works of Jesus and the Apostles and see want the Mighty Hand of God can do. Never put God in a box and neither should we do so to satan. DON"T JOIN THE BATTLE OF WITS SIR INSTEAD SEEK GOD TO HELP CORRECT WHAT YOU FEEL IS A MISS. In as much as i know you are human who can spit out a whole of a mouth full I plead with you to be like Christ who will always be just by removing the chaff from the wheat.

    ReplyDelete
  15. I wonder why people always say something unbelievable here pls everybody need to listen i don;t have much time to write much but i have little time to set my point on.Spiritual Husbands And Wives are real but not as Webuzy May 16, 2013 at 9:49 PM say.He say only in mind but i want you to understand They are many spiritual kingdoms in Water and there is some department whom always come in a real world to seduce or bring people back to there kingdom known and unknown,Let me break it down,World made up for both people you can see and those you can not see,Most of water Evil always come out to fine there new members and initiate them back to water,listen how it's work.Some for people was initiated even when they are in a mother's womb,Some was initiated by friends.father.mother,sister and bother Now listen how its become Wife or husband,First let start with normal fact,If someone who initiated the other has a deep relationship with her/he i mean if he/she has deeply love with each other he/she can initiated the other as her husband/wife.By then wife and husband has come.Secondly Some agent for those evil water always come out to the real world like a said before.so when they want to come they change themselves like a real human beings,so when they came,but this always happen to pregnant woman,If they notice that child in the womb has a very bright future i mean good luck,or if that child should be strong man,or if she/he love that child so much,He/she will initiated the unborn baby maybe he/she may buy something give to her mother when she eat it the baby has initiated,Then from that initiation if they develop more love i mean going deeply in a relationship depend maybe after the baby has born and grow a little bit matured they may start having dream sex, then he/she who initiated the other may go more further if they build more love to have neither dream marriage or engagement as husband and wife,then each has become husband and wife if they go to that extent , Then adult, friends should be careful,Some initiated there friends like girl friends and Boy friends when they fine out they will not marry in a real life but maybe one will be a spirit in water kingdom and he/she has deeply in love with other one,he/she will initiated the other one as his wife or her husband. Finally You have to know that Spiritual Husbands And Wives are those who have initiated as married somebody or having serious relationship,or engaged to unknown or known people who are in a spirit {water}kingdom.Once this happen you are married in a spirit water kingdom as a husband or wife.Some even born a child i mean children how this happen? now listen,if you are having sex with unknown face or known face even some for this water evil come with there face in dream,if you are having sex in your dream know that you are giving birth

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. But the things u say.how did you learn? I think from some spurios doctrine teachers. I am not an expert in occult although i had reacged a point of making people fall under the supposed power of holy spirit.

      Just to be clear. Saying its a mind thing does not mean it is a thinking harmless thing. By no means. Those who understand spirit stuff know the crucial role the mind plays for all those incatations and intercessory prayers to work.

      All indications are that i am right on what spiritual wives are. Just like i am right everyone in my family and the mojority of extended family are sorcerers.

      Its just what life gave me. Webu.

      Delete
    2. I love your very quick mention of "some spurious doctrine teachers". Remember Christ was also quickly dismissed as some "some spurious doctrine teacher" too, and he got Rabbi, Pharisee & teacher experts really mad.
      How do you explain dreaming of being forced to eat in a dream and waking up with a strange foul taste in the mouth?
      How do you explain waking up with a portion of your hair shaven?
      Or a person who feels hungry and eats enough for 7 people and not get full?
      Or the strength of Legion who broke chains, or how "hair" gave Samson as much strength as to break bonds and bring down building pillars.
      Do we really know everything on our own with our own minds?

      Delete
  16. for a kids,Why? he/she was in spirit so he/she always need you to be in spirit and the only way you can be in that spirit is when you are sleeping and your spirit will be free for he/she to have sex other enjoyment,then if you wake up you will fine out some thing like sperm if male or female you will fine out some thing that showed you have sex know that in spirit those things has interred your body if female then if male know that you have released a sperm into the water lady to develop a child. You know easy for spirit to see in real world than we in a real world to see in spirit it's hard for we in a real world to see in a spirit,but let me stop here i don't have much chance but i hope this will bring a clear understanding to you, not to think or unbelieving what is real,Some even got initiated from inclination,If i keep on writing this will be full for fact stories about this wonderful topic both signs and how you should know,many more things i have never finished with husband and wife but if you want to know more hit me up in my email jimbig29@yahoo.com, I will cool down and write to you all you need but am not a pastor or any anointing man for God i only have the gift as a 23 years old boy.Thank you,I even want to stop here something push me to tell you why this always hard to counselled or delivered because both has agree on it,Secondly because both always has a truth love in spirit without hurt,Because both has loved each other only in Spirit,Because both has gone too far,which only both for them and spirit friends know.because they have married or say a word that make them join together as husband and wife.In fact some even use there mouth join themselves as husband and wife but it's will be so strong because it's was in spirit kingdom,Even many for human being today was save by there Spirit husband or wife,Some got initiated when they are trying to get out from there problems,Some got initiated by there Spirit wives or husband who save them first time from there problems,Some get initiated in fact let me stop here, But know that it's real, Still happening in this computer world.

    ReplyDelete
  17. The author of this article is a spiritual moron and I won't blame him for being so, after all is a Methodist pastor as he said. The truth is that Spirit wives/husband exists and are real, so wake up and smell the coffee. It is called incubi and succubi, and they destroy lives of anyone they possess. Genesis 6:4 "Says in those days and after sometime, giant Nephilites lived on earth, for whenever the sons of God had intercourse with women, they gave birth to children who became heroes and famous warriors of ancient times. What did they do? oppress people.
    In Revelation 12:12 the bible says rejoice, O heavens and you who lives in the heavens rejoice! But terror will come on earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you in great anger, knowing he has little time. What this means that the devil has little time, and therefore, would like to destroy as many lives as possible, and they quickest way is through sex.
    Perhaps, you need to go back to bible school where they teach demonology, because this a model in theology. I can tell you where these things are more rampant in Africa is because of our polygamous and idolatry past. Rather than discouraging people from going for deliverance, please encourage them to go and get delivered, because it is real.

    ReplyDelete
  18. I feel its all been said. You have only shown your ignorance.

    This so called spirit wife/husband is also called spirit attachment in the secular world. And contrary to what alot of people think White people and people of the world, too have them. Even Muslims have them and they are known as Jinn/Quarin to them.

    What you should know is that its a demon. I too once dismissed this as nonsense until it happened to me. You may read my story on

    http://www.yourghoststories.com/real-ghost-story.php?story=10577

    I seek only to clarify and inform people of the growing danger that this phenomenon represents.

    You may reach me for more current information on Cephas66@hotmail.co.uk

    ReplyDelete
  19. only a spiritually ignorant pastor will say spiritual husband is false.check the pastor he may be and agent of darkness

    ReplyDelete
  20. After being in relationship with my boyfriend for six years,he broke up with me,I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem. Contact him now for your relationship or marriage problems via this email ofuaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. This comment has been removed by the author.

      Delete
  21. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  22. People, weather they exist or not we r not unaware of d presence of evil, but we shd all rejoice bcos He (Jesus) has overcome d world! Let's not trap our minds into accepting evil declarations for our lives!!! If d so called spiritual husband/wife wants to claim rights dat's 'its' beeswax! Wat does God's word say? He dat d son has set free is free indeed. Do u think Christ shed His blood so we can keep living under the law? We r in d period of grace and d sooner we free our minds of these 'diagnosis' the better for us. The new testament has been given so we can be transformed by d renewing of our minds! Also name calling is totally uncalled for, let each of us work out his/her salvation. My dear sister who cast a spell on a man, pls know dat anythn d devil offers ALWAYS comes wit dire consequences. When God opens his eyes it will not be a pretty sight. God ALWAYS makes all things beautiful at d right tym! It may tarry but wait for it for it'll surely come to pass. God bless us all and may He open the eyes of our understanding so we can walk in d light of His word as d children of d MOST HIGH! Let's be vigilant and prayerful!

    ReplyDelete
  23. Perhaps "spiritual wife/husband " is part of African tradition. Such demonic sexual influence is named Succubus and Incubus in European medieval lore, and is still in common language. The western concept of one's spiritual wife or spiritual husband is akin to a mystical soul-partner - the product of a deep bond of spiritual love, which is far from the fiendish (and idiotic) notion of a diabolical spouse. So it's regrettable that in some parts of the world the term 'spiritual' (as in ghostly intimacy) is degraded and its meaning, lost on the gullible, is completely negative.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Speaking as an African - aware of my own particular culture and traditions it actually isn't. Heard about it but didn't take it seriously when in Africa then saw what seemed to be an epidemic of it while living in Europe.
      Jason, the issues talked about here are universal - not African.

      Delete
  24. MY PEOPLE PERISH BECAUSE OF LACK OF KNOWLEDGE, I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU PASTOR WHOEVER YOU ARE. I WISH U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND BE TAUGHT U DONT EVEN QUALIFY TO BE A PASTOR. IF YOU DONT KNOW SAY I DONT KNOW OR I HAVE NEVER CAME TO AN ENCOUNTER WITH THE SITUATION AND STOP CRITISIZING OTHERS.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. We shall see them by their fruits. Love, patience kindness, forbearance... This will tell you if their His or not. So don't swear

      Delete
    2. Go read the word of God, come back and respond. You are angry and in a way swearing...I am married, the only thing that changed my marriage to heaven on earth was the word of God and counselling. I get prayer Sunday to Sunday to a point where my husband packed. When I left that place, everything that God had for me, came into being. Everything. Read the word of God and ask the Holy Spirit to guide you. Gone are the days when Moses was the only one with the Spirit of God. Because When Christ died, he tore the veil and he said, it is finished. The word of God, a double edged sword. It gives life

      Delete
    3. We shall see them by their fruits. Love, patience kindness, forbearance... This will tell you if their His or not. So don't swear

      Delete
  25. The satan's church is not mentioned in the bible either, neither are Jehova's witnesses, neither is drugs or AIDS... so what? Satan is creative in inventing new ways to mislead, torment and destroy people... All of them need deliverance... Why should we be ignorant?

    ReplyDelete
  26. I pity the "man", too. What led Legion to dwell in the graves? Well, ... African reformed Baptist Pastor?

    Can you describe the form and shape of the spirits or things that went from Legion, into the pigs, if there were spirits that went into pigs?

    Can you describe the way they convinced the pigs to go down the precipice, into the water?

    If you will be really honest with your answers, please also explain to your followers if a spirit belongs to the graves, and when it enters the person, drives the person to go and stay in the graves, streets, eating from rubbish bins, going naked, etc.

    Now to make you aware of your spiritual position. can you not identify yourself with the people who came and saw Legion delivered and instead of rejoicing in God for the supernatural power of God, went hysterical as much as to chase the deliverer away?

    Do you likewise cast out evil spirits in your church at all?

    You need to read the works of Christ and his followers with an independent mind, away from like minded people, seek God's forgiveness for uttering on what you do not know about thereby misleading people, find truly Godly people and get deliverance from an anti-Spiritual(Holy Spirit) spirit.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you i agree with your response. The bible says that 2000 demons went out of Legion into the swine space can somebody name at least 1000 of those demons(I don't think so)
      Most Christians have become experts at not knowing how to do it hence the bible says "lest you become deceived" James 1:22
      Whether its called a spiritual husband/wife or night husband/wife it does not mean it does not exist. Daily I help people who come for healing to get rid of these spirits that torment and rape them at night for various reasons. Just yesterday a woman explained how violated she felt after she was penetrated by one of these demons. The fact that some calls this nonsense is very alarming which means this spirit or spirits of this nature have free reign over him or them as they use denial as a firm of defence. The old adage says a burnt child dreads fire maybe some people have not been burnt yet.
      Theologians are dangerous minds as they ignorantly think or reason that the entire universe would fit into one book called the bible even all the libraries in the world cannot contain the enormity of God. Just the book of Genesis could take and has taken volumes of literature to comprehend the animals on earth
      Let's get understanding and stand against all forms of ignorance with love and wisdom for the sake of Jesus Christ Amen

      Delete
    2. He's a Baptist Pastor, they also don't believe in being filled with the Holy Spirit and Jesus said in John 14:15-17 15 If ye love me, keep my commandments. 16 And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; 17 even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you....Acts 2:4
      And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit was giving them utterance)...They also don't believe in casting out demons and they are fearful of the supernatural. They are so don't believe in living holy lives, because the Baptist churches I attend, the Ministers were shacking up, fornicating and having babies out of wedlock. I have was preaching the word and doing bible studies...hypocrites! But they don't call this demon possession with the Spirit of Lust. I know demons are real and I experienced demonic oppression, because I had backslide with a Moroccan that was a wizard, not knowing at the time, He went back to Chicago and he was using astral projection to sexually attack me in my sleep, which wizard do to claim you as theirs. And no, I was not thinking about him at all, but recently him came back around and he let it slip out his mouth, that he said women would say they saw him in dreams having sex with them before he came back around. I told him it was him coming to me at night sexually, I rebuked and told it was evil and if he didn't repent he will going to hell and told him I wanted no relationship with him because he was womanizing and practicing evil. Therefore, these spiritual realm things that people do who given themselves over to demonic powers of demons. Here are some scriptures about witches, witchcraft, demons which exposes some of what our spiritual can't see, but the Lord has close our spiritual eyes to see these evil fall angels around us, which sometimes because of sin, they are allowed to attack us, because open that door practicing and doing something we shouldn't been doing, which is disobedience...https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Samuel+28%3A7-20&version=AKJV
      https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+6%3A1-4&version=AMP

      https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Job+1%3A6&version=AMP

      https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+19%3A1-14&version=AMP

      http://www.cwgministries.org/blogs/i-had-sexual-dream-yikes

      https://www.biblestudytools.com/topical-verses/bible-verses-about-demons/

      Delete
  27. The problem is that most people are quick to believe whatever they hear and conclude it to be true. They seem to feel forced to rush and form their convinction before they make a good investigation. This Baptist may be right, but he is not convincing at all. He says that the teaching of "spiritual husbands and wives" is not Biblical, but his own article calling all this "nonsense" is not adequately or may i say sufficiently backed by the Word of God. So he himself is talking ""words without knowledge"" as he claims the other servants of God are talking. ~~"Who is this who darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Now prepare yourself like a man; I will question you and you will answer Me." Job 38:2-3~~ That was God talking to all of us who talk talk thing without enough knowledge, and without enough conviction themselves! Minister Conrad, have you done enough research before calling the teachings "nonsense"??
    Do you remember that nonsense means something that does NOT make SENSE? If you say something makes no sense, it only means you have failed to understand it, that's all. Give us something concrete.
    I have listened to these teaching you call 'nonsense' with a curious mind myself, I am a Lutheran Christian. Perhaps the title of '"spiritual spouse"' is an error. Perhaps they should call these "spirits who enter you through ungodly sexual activities". I think it's a very interesting topic and you Mr Conrad should do more research for the sake of those you teach. Do not teach ignorance Sir. All Africans are striving to get rid of ignorance for good.
    1 Thessalonians 5:21 says ~~"Test all things; hold fast to what is good"~~ So do not hold fast whatever you conclude before you test. And testing means a good research that can take you even a year! Sometimes the devil hides information from us by lying to us it is 'nonsense'!!!! It is nonsense??? How? Why? Where? When? Backup everything you say with Scripture! Practice what you preach!!!
    Also, what you say about 'dreams' shows clearly that you do not know a lot about spiritual matters. With all due respect African Reformed Baptist Pastor, you need to do some educating yourself on the issue of dreams as well. dreams dont just happen just because Sir.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Harry i will your whole argument with this one point. If (that is s big if) you are a a child of God, a Christian, a born again, that means that God the father,God the son and God the Holy spirit have come to live in you. God and the devil cannot live in the same house. For satan evil spirit to enter a Christian it would have to kick God out first. Who do you believe in, God or evil spirits.

      Delete
    2. The truly delivered of Yahuah Elohim (hebrew name of the most high) and his son Yahusha cannot be possessed by demons but they can surely be opressed by demons.

      Delete
  28. It is true the 'flesh is weak' but the 'spirit is willing'. Read Matthew 26:41. You are right to say the flesh is also to be blamed. But who/what persuaded the 'flesh' to yield? Yes, think! Even in the Garden of Eden, it was through sex that the devil stole Adam's glory. Isn't it? So think before you 'ink'... before you 'click'. Ok.
    Listen, we are spirits (altars, intuition, conscience), and we have souls (will, heart, mind) and bodies (bones, blood, flesh). Our spirits and bodies oppose each other forever, because the spirit came from the breath of God and the body from the dust of this world. Surely marriage/sex isn't spiritual but it is very much a door/gate to the soul and if you are not in Christ, a way straight into your spirit. Yes! Why? How? ~~"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?" 1Corinthians 6:17-19~~ Amen?
    Yes it is either the flesh or the devil who is to blame for disobedience, and there are different kinds of strongholds, there is oppression, obsession and possession of the human spirit. Faith in Jesus Christ is a vaccination against possession. So most Christians have the problem of oppression and obsession.
    And be slow in saying this teaching of 'spiritual spouses' is "African". What's wrong with that anyway? Even the bones of the very first upright standing man was found in Africa (Arusha, Tanzania). Many great things start from Africa. Africa IS great! Many great things are discovered in Africa. Nevertheless i have also heard American teachers teaching on "soul ties". It is roughly the same thing. For example: Listen to Minister Terri Savelle here at ww.youtube.com/watch?v=RKkqKtZCUuY
    God bless you Pastor Conrad.
    Peace in Christ.
    Amen.

    ReplyDelete
  29. This is an interesting teaching to listen to. Am not saying you should believe it and conclude anything. Just hold your Bible and listen carefully: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpbYD14AjGE

    God bless you.

    ReplyDelete
  30. Marine spirit are real,not only in spirit ream but likewise physical they come out from water ream and change themselves into human beings, some even work in pubic places just to initiate people into there kingdom,and once you are initiated they will be following you up and down till neither you are deliver or you death or you become member.They also produce something like make ups,bring into the world and sell,all this work is to get people soul into there kingdom.

    Succubus are not marine Spirit, they is abit difference,SUCCUBUS can only come to you in dream,have sex with you and go till next time she like come back then she came without harm,But they can't harm you or course you to become poverty,or unsuccessful,even restless,or lazy,even if they incidentally hurt you,they will feel pity as well and ask of forgiving,they can not hold your blessing or favor,they can not treat your life only if you make them sad.They will even bring Good things to your way,so that you will keep the relationship and enjoy it as well.

    MARINE SPIRIT: they will broke everything in your life,even fine a way to course you to death,

    they will make you poor,

    they will make you not to marry ot have girl friend,or be in a relationship

    they will make you fine yourself so lazy and unfortunate,restless and stressful all the time

    they will make you frustrated

    they will make you become bad and helpless,no hope

    they will hijack all your favor,blessing,properties,Good things in life not to come to you.

    they will brought shame always in you,

    in fact nothing,they will make you look less in human being,even you are good to them or not.

    they will be treating your life in one way or the other.

    they will do all they can to make sure you didn't achieved your dreams

    and they will monitored you using like,House lizard,snakes,or any kinds for animal or object they like,just to make sure they block every good things that come your way. that's marine of you.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Care to provide ANY Scriptural basis for such claims?

      Delete
  31. Thank you Jesus for revelation...read your bible very well. remember how the storm stood still

    ReplyDelete
  32. HI you cannot say this is not in the bible. look for the Catholic bible ....... then look for the book of Tobit. there you will find a woman called Sarah who had a spirit husband who killed all her previous 7 husbands right after she got married....on the wedding night! then the arc angel raphael came and bound him up and she got SUCCESSFULLY married! i dunno how but i think such stuff was removed from the bible to bind christians...or to leave them clueless...
    i was raised catholic but i am not Oblivious!

    ReplyDelete
  33. Sex with ghosts exists. Read this book: Otherworldly Affaires (Haunted Lovers, Phantom Spouses, and Sexual Molesters from the Shadow World) written by Brad Steiger. And you can read this book too: Sexual Alchemy: Magical Intercourse with Spirits - by Donald Tyson. Ida Craddock wrote a book on this subject: Heavenly Bridegrooms. Look in the Bible, Genesis 6:1, verse 2 the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose (the sons of God are spirits). And Mary had sex with the Holy Spirit - Matthew 1, verse 18 (World English Bible): Now the birth of Jesus Christ was like this; for after his mother, Mary, was engaged to Joseph, before they came together, she was found pregnant by the Holy Spirit.
    On the website from Gina Lanier you can find a lot of cases of paranormal relationships.
    So you are wrong with your opinion relating to spiritual husbands and wifes.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Mary did not have sex with the Holy Spirit pls. The Holy Spirit overshadowed her not slept. What happened was an anointing that causes positive turn around , like when someone is sick and @ the instance of prayer, or prophesy the sickness disappears.

      Delete
  34. I never believed until i became a victim!
    I now believe. I confronted, until I faced these. I believed and thought that God would always fight for me while I sit back, until forces of darkness started invading me in the nights. I would experience dreams I knew not what they meant. Funniest of all they came after rampant prayer and fasting and spiritual activities. If you have not experienced them thank God but see if you are lukewarm or overflowing in grace, or Compliant with the devils standards of Christianity. Dig deeper in spirit.

    ReplyDelete
  35. spiritual husband is a real thing im talking from experience,u even feel that somebody was sleeping with u,u even bleed after that

    ReplyDelete
  36. Spiritual spouses a re real! Even the Bible mentions the sons of God (demons) having sexual relations with the daughters of men and producing giants. If the demons could sleep with the women pysically, why would they not be able to do so spiritually?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Sons of God check luke 2. Genealogy of Jesus

      Delete
    2. Barox and John - check Genesis - the days of Enoch, then look at Exodus, Numbers, the Book of Judges and issues raised when Israel was comming into the promised land and has to fight the 'giants' and the Amalekites. Bearing that in mind look at Genesis 6:4 then tell me again whether you think there no categories of the sons of God and the need to redeem mankind following the fall and the time of Enoch was not the key reason Christ came to save us.

      Delete
  37. The saddest thing about this is the ignorance of the man of God who wrote the article. The sheep I can understand, the Man of God - I don't. You have greater responsibility Sir, to search things out before you make hasty conclusions. A person's ignorance or lack or revelation concerning a scriptural issue is no excuse for false teaching, especially if he is a shepherd. Just suppose this concept that you have decried as false is indeed a real happening in the lives of many, what have you done? Rather than giving these people help and hope, you've dismissed their real-life experiences as false and have kept the, in bondage. Rather then dismissing so ring you have no knowledge of as hogwash, why not search out scriptures, seek The Lord and see what He has to say on the subject matter? 1 Tim 4:16 -> Take heed to your doctrine .......... By so doing, you will save both yourself and those who hear you" was Paul's injunction to the young Pastor Timothy. Man of God, YOU are responsible for the things you teach your followers, whether they be true or false, whether they were taught in ignorance or not, so please beware and do proper research in the presence of The Lord before stepping out to teach anything. God's people are to be taught the true Word of God, NOT your personal opinion, no matter how sensible you think it is. The whole foundation of the church is built on revelation (Matt 16:18), not on personal opinion. Jesus said or did nothing except what He saw His Father say and do, even though He was God (John 12:29; 5:19, 30; 8:28). It behooves every minister of God to do the same, lest he falls into error. (FYI: If you are interested in gaining scriptural insight into this subject, you may start by studying Jude 6 & Gen 6:2 & 4 and let the Spirit of The Lord and Bible Study Tools give you deeper understanding)

    ReplyDelete
  38. I'd be interested in seeing if you have enough integrity to publish the truth (the response I just sent) whether or not it agrees with your opinion. A true man of God receives truth and correction in meekness; so I'd be interested in seeing if you will publish my comments. "You will know them by their fruit". Please understand, this is not an attack on the Man of God, I honor his office as a man of God and would not fight against authority. I just have a major problem with people who teach falsehood, whether in ignorance or not. God give you the grace to go beyond your current knowledge base, research the truth yourself, and arm your followers with truth. Amen.

    ReplyDelete
  39. Thank you, Dr Mbewe, for your truthful article. I have just listened to a sermon by the writer of the booklet (Dr Olukoyo) so that I could gain a broader understanding of this teaching in Africa. Scripture he quotes is out of context and his followers are to be exhorted to heed Acts 17:11. It is so very sad that many listen to this, read his work, and believe what he teaches -- so sad!

    ReplyDelete
  40. i am not going to say it is true or not but the big question many claim to be christains but they are just church goers so if they have spiritual problems what else do you espect.lets be real .it will happen to those that dont have the light of christ in them .and remember |we war not against the flesh but spiritual principalities.....cant remember the bible portion that stated that .finally whether spirit husband or spirit wife . allow the light of chirst to come into your life through the holy spirit and be completely free from any spiritual bondage.God bless.

    ReplyDelete
  41. i am not going to say it is true or not but the big question many claim to be christains but they are just church goers so if they have spiritual problems what else do you espect.lets be real .it will happen to those that dont have the light of christ in them .and remember |we war not against the flesh but spiritual principalities.....cant remember the bible portion that stated that .finally whether spirit husband or spirit wife . allow the light of chirst to come into your life through the holy spirit and be completely free from any spiritual bondage.God bless.

    ReplyDelete
  42. You are Ignorant...with a capital I. This is real. The spirit world is real....and yes there are sexual spirits...call them husbands...wives incubus...succubus...or what ever...but they are real...and you are an absolute fool to think they are NOT.....I feel sorry for your congregation...if you have one...YOU are an ABSOLUTE FOOL....

    ReplyDelete
  43. You obviously don't know what you are talking about. Before you write such a misleading article you should have sought God for clarity! People come on the net searching for guidance and answers and here we have this false teaching!...Woe be unto you!....Have you heard that saying "Who feels it knows it"?.....Maybe you need your own experience!...I pray for all the people who come on this page....I pray that they WILL NOT believe these lies and will get the help they need!...I rebuke and bind all forces of darkness over this article!...I render your forces powerless! In Jesus Mighty Name Amen!!!

    ReplyDelete
  44. M'am, you are correct when you say that people come on the net searching for guidance and answers. but the very troubling part is that they only want answers that appease themselves and not God. If the answer given does not line up with the word of God, we must dismiss that 'answer.' Our 'feelings' are fickle and we should always look at matters -especially spiritual matters -thru the word of God. There is really no need to talk down anyone because in doing so we dishonor God. We can point out errors based on God's word and we can defend God's word. He has never said to rely on our feelings but we should be obedient to Him and to trust Him. We have to prayerfully weigh whatever comes across our paths via a biblical perspective. We cannot honor God with our emotions -if they are not based on His word. May God be glorified thru His children

    ReplyDelete
  45. Either you are ignorant or you belong to the perpetrators. You are the one misleading people with your nonsense theories. Your analyses are superficial, too obvious and in consequence very weak. Because you have not experienced it doesn't mean it does not exist. You better do some research on your own on the matter before making such an allegation. Are you sure you work for God? Are you may be just unhappy that finally folks can go online and find answers to their questions regarding sprit husband/wife and direction to how to address the matter? If you wrote this article by ignorance, then you are too narrow-minded and shouldn't be a pastor to begin with. I pray that the Lord Jesus Christ who obviously has preserved you from the attacks of spirit husband/wife will answer you.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. What you're saying, madam, doesn't even make coherent sense. Where in the Bible - the Book we claim is the Word of God, inerrant, infallible, sufficient - where does it teach this nonsense? N.O.W.H.E.R.E. Nowhere!!!

      Delete
    2. were the sons of God in genesis not spirit beings that slept with the daughters of man and created nephilims?

      Delete
  46. There is a kingdom of darkness that exists in the universe. It is an unseen realm and is inhabited by different types of beings. Some resemble mankind, some are in animal forms, some manifest as UFOs , some as giants, some as wind, some as light etc. the bottom line is: they are evil spirits. They all operate under satan and their main work is to deceive mankind and cause havoc in the lives of human beings. The bible is full of verses indicating that some operate on earth, some in the air and some dwell in the waters. The pastor that wrote this article most likely had no understanding of the Word as it relates to evil spirits and the kingdom of darkness. Evil spirits are real. If anyone denies their existence it means he or she does not believe in the Lord Jesus Christ because the Lord cast them out from people when he was on this earth. We as human beings live in different parts of the world, speak different languages and call certain things by different names . it is therefore not surprising for an evil spirit to be called incubus in one part of the world and “sprit husband” in another part of the world. The point here is that whether it is called sprit husband in one region or mermaid or incubus or pepo or nymph in another region, the fact remains that it is an evil spirit. It belongs to the kingdom of darkness and is most likely an unseen entity. The evil spirits that dwelt in the man referred to as Legion, what kind were they? The bible says that they begged Jesus to allow them to go into the pigs. When they entered the pigs why did they rush down the cliff to drown and end up in the water? The fact that they went into the water, does that not suggest they may have been marine spirits – evil spirits that dwell in the water realm. Who was the queen of heaven that the men and women in Jeremiah’s time baked cakes for. Was it not a female demon - an evil spirit most likely operating in the air/heavenly realm? Who was baal zebub the god of Ekron to whom Ahaziah sent messengers to inquire if he would recover from his sickness? Was it not a demon – an evil spirit operating on earth? The book of revelation says: And the great dragon was thrown down, that ancient serpent, who is called the devil and Satan, the deceiver of the whole world—he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him. This bible verse clearly shows there are entities operating on this earth in an unseen state – spirits. There are also spirits mentioned in revelation as frogs and reptiles are they not evil spirits in animal form? We as Christians are supposed to learn from one another. Regardless of how long one has been a Christian or his role in church, whether pastor, apostle evangelist or ordinary church goer, we don’t always know everything so before making misleading statements we need to inquire more, or learn more from fellow Christians. Those who have not had the misfortune of being tormented by evil spirits should not dismiss the existence of evil spirits or the experiences of people who have been victims. Spiritual husband or mami wata (mommy water) are just terminologies commonly used by west Africans to refer to evil spirits that affect some people in one way or another. In other parts of Africa say, Egypt, Sudan or some east African countries, the phenomena may be similar but the spirits are more likely to be known as Zar or pepo or jinni. In western countries, the middle east and Asia similar phenomena exist even though they don’t refer to them as spiritual husbands. There’s need for people to be careful not to be misled by statements from people who have no knowledge of certain matters. Evil spirits are real. They have different names and different functions. In west Africa some people refer to the as spirit husband/spirit wife. Some oppress humans in sexual matters, some lead humans to idolatry , some are responsible for false teachings, some mislead humans to join cults and secret societies, some propagate doctrines of demons, some are responsible for occult miracles, power and wealth etc.

    ReplyDelete
  47. @Joshua Debunker: A Fitting and comprehensive treatise on something that is indeed very-very real.

    ReplyDelete
  48. Dear brotheren. Just because you have not experienced it, does not qualify you to criticize. My wife and I are born again and love the Lord very much. We are still praying that we get deliverance. My wife has a spiritual husband who visit her at least once a week at night. She often make sexual groans, moves and positions in her sleep. when I wake her up, she will tell me of this dream having sex with a stranger, me or Pastor. we constantly have unexplained arguments which go away once we prayed. At night when we want to make love, the bed will vibrate and I will loose erection or she looses sexual desire for weeks. We love each other and we are bringing our kids up to the Lord. we pray that one day we will experience peace in our home.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Dear Muzi Gumede...do NOT disappear. there is hope for you and your wife...through the intervention of God... in the name of Jesus Christ. Your wife WILL be set free from sexual demonic attacks. But only God can do this. This is a spiritual battle...fought n the spirit world. God Jehovah can do this for you and He WILL do this for you. You need only ask...but keep in mind it may take a long time...because the demons are NOT going to want to leave your wife alone. You MUST keep your faith...and believe that God WILL Do this for you. No matter what you see...just remember the demons must leave in the name of Jesus...and also remember the battle is NOT yours...but the Lord's...you only need stand on His word...and keep your faith. And Muzi do also remember...this is NOT an overnight process. It will take time...cause these spirits will not want to go...but they WILL...just keep your faith. A healing WILL come

      Delete
    2. To everyone one that think spirit husband and wife is nonesince or don't exist. The devil is so pleased with u, u are thinking just like he won't u to think.

      Delete
  49. http://prideisamonster-leviathan.com/7155.htmlSPIRIT OF LEVIATHAN

    Job 41 is the key passage on leviathan. Most of the people who have this powerful spirit never get deliverance because one of his chief jobs is to block deliverance. Ministers who refuse to open up to the ministry of deliverance are being controlled by a leviathan spirit. This is their chief problem. Most of the people who fight the deliverance ministry have powerful leviathan demons, and are therefore rarely delivered. Perhaps one of the reasons we know so little about this spirit is because we do not get to tackle him as often as others.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Isaac - check out the book of Isaiah - chapter 27 - there's a prayer already written over the spirit of leviathan - also known in some circles as the serpentine spirit.

      Delete
  50. nonsense is just what you wrote

    ReplyDelete
  51. I just read your article Pastor because I am having visitations by spirit husband. I clicked on your website looking for help, but all I found is your denial of spirit husband, Honestly, you don't know what you're talking about at all!!! Before you dispense knowledge of a subject that you have not experience or know anything about, you should first pray and consult God and have Him instruct you before you open your mouth! You are in great error because you lack knowledge. You have a responsibility to know what you're talking about - INQUIRE OF THE LORD!!!

    ReplyDelete
  52. May God help those who have dealt with this or are having a problem with this.
    It also helps if people with these problems realise that these 'spiritual marriages' are illegal - which means they are non existent - just a fabrication from those who advocate the opposite of truth. Fortunately, this means they can't be held by those forces and are already free and should use that as a weapon when fighting that enemy.

    ReplyDelete
  53. Call them what you may. The experience is real. Many are having sex with spitirs in their deam.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Almost my entire teenage years i use to be visited by woman in my dream just for sex.

      Delete
  54. Thank you Pastor Conrad for the article. It is so sad that we are quick to dismiss God's TRUTH in favour of myths.

    ReplyDelete
  55. What do you say about this? Try to explain something that people have experienced and eventually ... DENY... but with arguments not just empty words
    Have patience and read ...

    http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html

    ReplyDelete
  56. Spiritual husband and wife is real. I have experience this for years and witnesses my mom having sex on her own with no man present as a child so by real come to reality Jesus is the answer and deliverer thank yo

    ReplyDelete
  57. Truth be told, this Pastor who opposes the existence of spiritual spouses is spiritually blind and urgently need deliverance himself

    ReplyDelete
  58. I feel sorry for you all. You are all being deceived. spiritual wives and husband are real especially when you are sleeping around with lots of women or men you become one with them all in the physical and spiritual, . Sexual intercourse goes beyond mere pleasure or fun alone. It’s a blood covenant. God created sex for a man and a woman married only. “Do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” I am sure you dont belief in ungodly soul ties too.
    Whoever posted this know nothing about spiritual warfare, sorry.

    Base on Exodus 22:16, but not limited to it, please let me know what your perspectives and views are concerning the "blood covenant" and "bond" that takes place between a man and a lady whenever sexual intercourse occurs, especially for the first time.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you, Coco. I agree with you. Of course this is real. People from all cultures and religions have these experiences. I too have had a nightly visitor since my early teens. The masculin entity is jealous and fierce but also protective and possessive. I don't have to explain what impact this has had on my relationships.

      Honestly I think this entity is the only one that has ever fulfilled my emotional and sexual needs but I also know this is very wrong. For many years "he" only visited me in my dreams but the last five years I have had my blanket slowly pulled off of my body and gentle wind blowing my hair away from my forehead when I'm in bed.

      Only resently I learned about spirit husbands/wives. I had no words to describe my own experiences before I saw a video on Youtube about the topic a few days ago. I know the entity and I have to part now and a part of me feels sorrow for having to leave "him".

      No, I'm neither mental nor out of balance. I'm just an ordinary woman living a quiet middle class life in North Europe which has a story to tell about my experience with a dimension not restricted to the physical world.

      Delete
  59. Blind eyes that cannot see what you can see or feel does not mean it does not exist or happen so learn Ephesians 6 warfare against the enemies...there were 2000 demons in Legion and bible knowing Christians cannot count even 50 of them = 1950 demonic ignoramuses...

    ReplyDelete
  60. Pastor Conrad, it amazes me with your vast experience as a man of God, you did not use Holy Spirit guidance when writing this article. I would expect you to respect every pastor, evangelicals etc. even though you think that they are not true representative of God's teachings. It is God job to judge. Yes there are some church pastors who do ungodly things, but you don't have any basis to condemn and judge them Leave it to God. Spiritual wives and husbands and other evils spirits exist. I doubt whether your ministry or you personally delivers people, if it was true, you would have a different opinion.

    ReplyDelete
  61. I whole heartedly agree with your article Pastor Conrad. I have read and listen to a few of your points and I believe you are swimming upstream in an environment where personal experience trumps clear orthodox Christian biblical teachings. I pray that our Good Lord continue to strengthen you and to let you know that you are not alone, you are in the forefront but there is an army of us praying for you.
    One of the problems with Christians today is that we don't give as much credit to the Bible and Our God as much as we do satan and his demons.
    The gospel is that Christ died was buried and He rose to give us Eternal Life. Eternal Life means that God restores His Holy Spirit into us and says "I will never leave nor forsake you"
    For an evil spirit to 'enter' a born again believer, that evil spirit will have to kick God out first. Because God and satan cannot and will never live in the same temple.
    This non sense about spiritual husbands and wives is just that.. no sense. And the notion that if you have not experienced it then you cannot talk about it is right up there with the notion that God doesn't exist because we don't see Him.
    I have read a few arguments about Genesis 6. And I must say that it is very bad theology to read into that passage your bias of spiritual husbands and wives. The passages talks about sons of God and Nephilim. How in God's earth do we get spiritual husbands and wives from that?
    And another thing is this notion that we cannot criticize other pastors or "touch not God's anointed' is truly nonsense and not biblical. We are to hold each other according to what the bible says.
    Good theology requires proper exegesis and not careless eisegesis backed by personal experiences.

    I stand with you brother Conrad as we push and bring back the basic gospel of Jesus Christ that saves.

    ReplyDelete
  62. My people parish because of lack of knowledge. This is real and requires deliverance. Some things do not come but by fasting and prayer. If you acknowledge that Jesus was confronted with various nameless demons you have to know that this occurrence still exist. It would have most likely been more prudent for you and your soul/spirit to research the validity of what you heard in full. Ezekiel 26-28 speaks of the "marine kingdom" and explains its effects. If you know Solomon's story you know he didn't fall until export from across the sea's was brought to him. Once this happen we know that Solomon fell to various sexual temptations. You sir have to do your due diligence or you find yourself on the wrong side of the truth. Research and ask for revelation before you go into rants and raves. The best place to research is finding out the truth about the marine kingdom and how they operate. Then compare you life to the operations of the marine kingdom and you will mostly see how real this is. By the way spirit wives/husband derive from the marine kingdom.

    ReplyDelete
  63. Not surprised all those calling these spiritual husbands unreal.I wander the type of postor this man is who kols nonsense.
    Its only becoz u havnt been victims of such spirits.let those with experiences speak

    ReplyDelete
  64. How many of you are aware that when you get one of these attacks that anything good which was coming your way - a job, an inheritnce, a promotion an award etc, that it never happens? Pray that you do not get one because you cannot see the spirit but men get u with nature on their bodies and women get up with their vaginas wet and a slight cramp in their loser stomach. This is how occult people sow sicknesses into people. How do you epain that women who had not engaged in sexual activity for many many years are then diagnosed with ids in their old age? Do you understand what the verse which speaks of the "enemies sowed tares while they slept" means? Do you know where sicknesses come from - the dark spirit world. Spirit husbands and wives are of the dark side and are generaly the old ancestors who are still angry that you have abandoned their idol worship and take on Jesus. If you are saying that you have never experienced such then maybe you are still engaging in private idol worship or you are an occultist who cast spells.

    ReplyDelete
  65. Have you read the parable of the sower and paid attention to the verse which states: " .... and the enemies came while they were sleeping and sowed tares". Spiritual husbands and wives are enemies of darkness that are sent to you to "sow tares - sicknesses in your body. The after result is that within 3 days you begin to feeel sick be later be diagnosed with a non-communicable disease; or be disappointed over something good that was to happen for you but did not hapen; or lost a dear friendship; or missed your fight overseas, etc. The spiritual husbnds are the old ancestors who worshipped idols and are angry with you because you are worshipping another God. Those who do not have probems with spirit husbands or wives are still worshipping idols. Some human beings make themselves spirit husbands and wives because you have turned down their advances and they will make sure that you will never get another partner. They will come to you ever so often. You will automatically lose any interest in forming a relationship with anyone. Such can do on for yers. Spirit husbands and wives are real. Those who disagree, I would have to wonder if you are some who act in those capacities as well.

    ReplyDelete
  66. James and I were together for 3 years and lived together for two until he was moved to another state for job in March of last year.Sept was the last time we spent time together.We went for a vacation and had a fabulous time,not knowing it would be the last time I would see him.He stopped calling Nov,and just sent me a text saying he did not want to talk.I did not pursue it because I thought he just needed some space.March came rolling in,and I found out he got married.How could it be?I found out,shortly before we started dating,he was communicating with a girl from another country and made a trip there once and proposed to her.He made another trip in 2015.She finally came to the country Jan of this year and I figured the reason he dumped me was when he found out she was approved to come to the US.I made the huge mistake of going to the social media and found the woman’s posts of their wedding and trips,etc.That hurt me more than I could imagine.It has been 8 months since I’ve seen him but just can’t get him out of my head.Honestly,I feel very jealous of his now.I wake up in the morning feeling nonexistent,empty and wishing I don’t wake up so I don’t have to feel the same pain I could never get accustomed to.The deceit and the fact that I was used and hurt so bad that I don’t think I could move past it.I decide to seek the help of a psychologist because I knew I was losing it. As I searched the internet, I found cases similar to mine and some,even worse.But all of them sang praises of a man whom helped them restoring their broken relationships,marriages and family…Dr Kene Dilli. I was supprised and decided to give it a try as I contacted his email I found in those testimonies; kenedillitemples AT yahoo DOT com. Behold,after doing all he instructed,he sent me a parcel plus the steps needed as reguarding the parcel.Now,I have got back my lover…James,and he has filed for a divorce with the other lady he married. #HappyToBeBackWithJames.

    ReplyDelete
  67. My husband works in the Natural Gas industry. We live in PA, and he transferred to New Mexico but flies home every two weeks. I was livid when he decided to transfer, we had just bought our home last year. We don’t have any children together, but I have a son that lives with us and he has a son from a previous relationship who lives with his mother. I have always experienced a little anxiety with this man when he goes out of town for work. And, now that he’s working in Texas and New Mexico and staying in man camps the anxiety is just crippling. I want to call or text all the time but I resist because I know it just looks crazy. I guess I just miss him, but I’m worried I will eventually have to move down to Texas or New Mexico. Cause this part time spouse thing is just not working. Sometimes I fantasize about his job getting cut and then he would be home all of the time. Sorry for the novel of a post…as you can tell I am having an anxiety induced crazy episode.till i met a comment on the Internet about one prophet savour then i contact him and explain to him he told me not to worry my husband will come back to me i did not believe hem one night when i was sleeping i herd my phone was ringing i picked the call it was my husband asking me to forgive him i was shucked ever since me and my husband is living peacefully if you are the kind trouble i was in please contact him on....prophetsavoursoluction@gmail.com..please contact him now,

    ReplyDelete
  68. Pastor, I really want to believe that this whole spiritual husband/wife thing is just sheer nonsense! Trust me, I would do anything to believe it. Hear my story out and then let me know how you would classify my experience because I have been trying to search for answers for a long long time now. Sometimes I tell myself I am delusional or that I just need to change my thinking but the evidences are so clear and tangible for me to just rule it out as nonsense.

    I am a born again Bible believing christian and a follower of Jesus Christ. My parents brought me up in Biblical ways and i somehow sailed through life as a christian but from the moment I made up my mind and decided to simply devote myself and commit myself to following the Bible and being a trully devoted christian, its like all hell opened its gates against me and it has been struggle after struggle and my life has become full of nightmares.

    My story is long but i will try to list specific events that has totally left me worn out and seeking answers.

    Firstly, I vomit every time I enter my prayer closet and consentrate on prayer. I usually vomit a white foam. It begins with a feeling like something is moving in my stomach then i begin belching out loudly and then I vomit out a white foam and It has been happening for about 4 years now. Of course at first I was so so afraid but I am used to it nowadays but I really need it to stop because I cant concentrate on prayer in public since I dont want to embarrass myself. What do you say about this?

    ReplyDelete
  69. Read Genesis 6: 1-5... These spirits are real... We only perish bcoz of lack of knowledge

    ReplyDelete
  70. I honestly advise whoever wrote this post to go for serious deliverance.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. he must rush for deliverance. He is misleading many, many will go to hell because of ths teaching.

      Delete
  71. Sir, i think the term you used is wrong because any spirit filled husband and living a spiritual life can be said to be a spiritual husband as to the term SPIRIT HUSBAND which is a spirit being. The correct or right term to use is SPIRIT HUSBANDS/WIVES NOT SPIRITUAL HUSBANDS/WIVES. Every man should aspire to live a spiritual life

    ReplyDelete
  72. Sir, i think that the term you used is wrong because any spirit filled husband and living a spiritual life can be said to be a spiritual husband as compare to the term SPIRIT HUSBAND which is a spirit being. The correct or right term to use is SPIRIT HUSBANDS/WIVES NOT SPIRITUAL HUSBANDS/WIVES. Every man should aspire to live a spiritual life

    ReplyDelete
  73. I understand both sides of arguments. But Pastor Mbewe is right. There is no such thing as spirit/spiritual husband/wife in the Bible. These are demons that want to take credit. Our spirits belong to God so we can't have demons as our spirit/spiritual spouses. If we fully obey the Word of God (John 14:15-21) and if we are truly moved/led/owned by the Spirit of God, we are then owned by Christ alone, We are His spouse, His body, His Church, we can't have another spirit as spouse. If every believer should obey James 4:7 and stay away from sin and obey God's voice, all demons will flee from us and we will need no help from special men of God, and we don't need anointing from anyone besides the Holy Spirit who is Himself the anointing. God alone is our source. If you are in doubt then you will continue seeking help from men...

    ReplyDelete
  74. Any Pastor that does not believe in the existence of Spirit husbands /wives is ignorant of the realities of life. the Bible did not mention everything happening today. They believe in Trinity that is not in the Bible and has never been mentioned in it but they dont believe demons sleep with humans. HYPOCRITES.

    ReplyDelete
  75. P.J.Migisha
    You say you understand both sides of the argument then go on to express total lack of understanding. The Bible does not have a conclusive list on kinds of demons but lack of knowledge & experience on what demons isn't a good conclusion that they do not exist in that way.
    What kinds of demons indwelt Legion & how did they cause him to behave? An earthly minded person wants physical empirical evidence to reach a conclusion on spiritual matters. Spirits do not occupy space but have results visible to the eye. Certain demons can make one dirty, another one violent, overeating, hateful, lose pregnancy, etc. Other demons claim a person is their wife & frustrates every relationship.
    To a person who confronted such demons, cast them out & the person had correct change, or a former victim or anyone in such environments can confirm demons by their type of influence on people's lives.
    However, an earthly minded person is blind in spiritual matters. It is common in spiritual dry environment where Holy Spirit is not evidently active in real life spiritual situations like when Christ confronted legion.
    Demons are happy in these denial, blind groups because these people's ignorance is their (demons) conquest over them.
    In other words, you do not disturb their peace because whatever you do, youdo not pose a threat to their human dwellings.
    It is a form of spiritual blindness such that no matter how much evidence you see with your physical eyes, you are hardened unto denial. Reminding me of Pharisees who always had a problem with Jesus' source of power yet they were bible experts. They saw that a blind man had been healed but it was a cause of agitation to them. Even when Jesus rose, they didn't want any of it known- but He rose.
    So, as you accepted demons exist, & quoted an unrelated verse, can you please explain what demons you then know about & how they affect lives.
    There a infirmity spirits, dumb spirits too.
    Else, you are in need of learning.

    ReplyDelete
  76. I bet this spiritual thing is real. I'm 21 and I can't find a husband. I don't even get approached by men. Those who approach me dump me immediately before anything, they just go silent. And am a beautiful and decent woman. My situation is not normal to anyone who hears about it. I bet I have this spirit battling me.

    ReplyDelete
  77. As there is a mystery of the Gospel (Ephesians 3:1-10), so is the mystery of wickedness (2 Thessalonians 2:7); and not all people can discover it. Even Prophet Isaiah did not know that he was wicked until when he entered the spirit realm and saw the throne of God (Isaiah 6:1-7). If you happen to enter the realm and come into the presence of the Holy Ghost fire you may see those incubus and succubus manifesting in you, and you will testify the truth of it!

    ReplyDelete
  78. You are misleading many with this article you wrote. Please sick for guidance from the Holy Spirit. This is totally unacceptable form a person who calls himself a Pastor. Spiritual Husbands are real and many are affected.

    ReplyDelete
  79. I agree with you. We are equipped with everything we need in spiritual warfare from the Holy Scriptures. Its like the pentecostal teachings of a jezebel, kora and python spirits. Other than "Legion", Jesus did not call them by name. Everything Jesus did had a purpose, and was not random. Nor was He sarcastic. He revealed the vast quantity of demons that were inhabiting that young man, and basically was showing His power over them. We hear Him never mention Jezebel when he approaches the woman at the well, the woman thrown before him, the woman watching His feet or annointing His head. Paul never warned Timothy of such spirits when encouraging him to start churches. If these were issues that needed to be taken as serious as many pentecostal communities have made them. Just because those who have dabbled in or are in the deep with the curious arts, or occult , and they say that this exists or that exists doesn't mean you should take them serious. They are the ones deceived. Jesus died to feee us from all that pagan darkness. That is why the world was so dark before he was born. The spirit world wants you to believe they have rights to you, as a child of God. Jesus'Blood says "no".

    ReplyDelete
  80. Jesus is KING and He is LORD. You don't need to understand all the evil workings of the devil. You just need to be sober and vigilant, because he is prowling around like a lion looking for someone to devour. You can have a gift of discernment, you can have wisdom, and know when he is at work. Wben your eyes are focused on his demons and knowing all the little tidbits of what his weapons are, your eyes are not on the LORD and Savior. When you are studying all this stuff done in darkness, you are not studying the WORD. Why would you trust those who got thia information from darkness. Christians are still gonna have a hard life. People are gonna dream. The mind and the soul are not one. The subconscious does come forward in dreams. Usually when you are not listening. There are several scriptures that show us that God will protect us in our sleep. We are also told that the weapons of our warfare are not carnal. But that is why you use what is in the Bible, for tearing down strongholds. Anything that elevates itself against the Word of GOD is to be torn down. The teaching of spiritual spouses attempts to elevate itself avainst the Word. It should be torn down. Stop focusing on demons, get your eyes on Jesus Christ Who loved you so much that He willingly allowed Himself to be put to death on the cross, He died, descended into hell where the power of satan to drag to hell anyone was taken from him. Jesus decides who goes to hell, not some spiritual spouse. Jesus rose from the dead. He ascended into Heaven. If you can't trust the Blood, you can't trust anything. You all need to come out of this teaching of spiritual spouses. You all need to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and be filled with the Holy Spirit. Read your Bibles and get to know what God expects of you as a New Covenant believer. Paul made no mention of such spirits when writing to the Corinthians who had a sefious problem with fornication. Jesus made no mention of spiritual names except for when asking those spirits inhabiting the young man in Genessaret. It was to show there were many, and to show His power of GOD. So stop. Get your eyes on Christ.

    ReplyDelete
  81. Actually there is such a story I. The Bible I remember reading it.

    ReplyDelete
  82. The exact phrase spiritual bondage does not appear in the Bible, but Scripture does speak of unbelievers’ being in bondage to sin (Acts 8:23; Romans 6:6, 16, 19; 7:14; 2 Peter 2:19). Jesus said, “Very truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin” (John 8:34) and that He came to set us free (verse 32). Evil has a way of taking hold in a person’s life, and bad habits are hard to break. For an unsaved person, sin forms a chain that only the Savior can break.

    So, there is some biblical truth in the idea of spiritual bondage. It is possible to “give the devil a foothold” (Ephesians 4:27) by harboring sins like anger in our hearts. However, we should not think of spiritual bondage as Christians being bound by demons. Ministries that focus wholly on breaking demonic bondage often misapply biblical texts to support their teachings. For example, there is a difference between a person who lives according to the flesh (an unbeliever) and one who lives according to the Spirit (a believer), according to Romans 8:5–13. The one is in bondage; the other is not. A believer can be guilty of disobeying God, but he cannot practice disobedience (1 John 3:4–10). That is, a believer is not in bondage to sin. A believer may have a compulsion to steal, and he may even carry out a theft, but he will repent. What a believer cannot do is self-identify as a thief, enjoy being a thief, and feel no remorse. Romans 8 does not support the idea of spiritual bondage for a believer; it simply delineates the difference between a believer and an unbeliever.

    There is no doubt that demons oppress and tempt believers, and there are some states of mind that are fertile ground for temptation (Matthew 6:13; 1 Corinthians 7:5; Galatians 6:1). But there is no evidence to suggest that we are in any way bound by demons or rendered helpless in spiritual warfare. A word search for oppression in the Bible reveals that man’s oppression of his fellow man is a far more common problem. Here is the real danger: that we become obsessed with spiritual bondage and with our own inner workings to the point that sin becomes our focus rather than Christ.

    The word religion comes from a Latin word meaning “to bind fast.” The idea behind the term religion is that the devotee is bound under an obligation of some sort. Religion can easily turn into a type of spiritual bondage when we allow our fears of hell, judgment, or demonic activity to control us or when we adopt a religious mindset that says, “If I don’t perform such and such a ritual, there will be bad consequences.” This is not biblical truth. “Perfect love drives out fear” (1 John 4:18). We are not saved by rituals we perform; in fact, Jesus said that ritualistic religion does nothing but “load people down with burdens they can hardly carry” (Luke 11:46). Those who believe in Christ are given rest and spiritually protected (Matthew 11:28; Romans 8:37–39; Jude 1:24).

    We know that sin is harmful, and some sins are quite habit-forming. But there is nothing in the Bible to suggest that when we sin we are bound by demons or cinched up in spiritual straps.

    The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom (Job 28:28; Psalm 111:10; Proverbs 1:7), and trusting God is the way to safety (Proverbs 3:5–6). This may seem counterintuitive. How can we trust the One we fear? What it means is that God—not demons, not other men—has omnipotent power in the universe. He is the King. If we set ourselves against Him, we are putting ourselves in the only real danger that exists. But if we trust Him, we are safe. God’s children are free: “You didn't receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’” (Romans 8:15, World English Bible).

    ReplyDelete
  83. This is all the work of charismatic churches to draw peoples to their congregation and for profit, Jesus is ready to punish you for his peoples you misleading with such nonsense spiritual husband or wife nonsense man,

    These false prophets are changing the grace of God into a licence for immorality (Jude 1:4). Now let me tell you what these false teachers or pastors do to deceive people.

    Don’t fall in love with miracles because (Mathew 24:24 For there will be false christs, and false prophets, and they will show great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray, if possible, even the chosen ones,)

    (Romans 16:17 Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them.:18 For those who are such don’t serve our Lord Jesus Christ, but their own Belly: and by their smooth and flattering speech, they deceive the hearts of the innocent)

    The false prophets tell you to come to Christ Jesus and you will receive anything you want, like success, business, good life and miracles. Some of these contradict the bible because they are earthly desires and not spiritual (1 John 4 They are of the world. Therefore they speak of the world, and the world hears them).

    When you are praying in their crusade they tell you to ask Jesus anything you want including cars, buses, businesses, good life and Jesus will give you them.
    This is a destruction because, (James 4:3 You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it for your pleasures) all of these things are not part of salvation. My friends wake up from your dreams and follow the real Jesus who’s the Son of God. (Romans 3:16 Destruction and misery are in their ways.)

    Lets see an example of this licence for morality which they had changed:

    They preach prosperity, material things and worldly things.

    Colossians 3: if then you were raised together with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated on the right hand of God.2: Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on earth.:

    3 Put to death therefore your members which are on the earth: sexual immorality, uncleanness, depraved passion, evil desire and covetousness, which is idolatry.:5for which things’ sake the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience…James 4:4 You adulteresses, don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

    They sell blessed products for profit

    (Mathew 21:12 Jesus entered in to the temple of God, and drove out all of those who sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the money changers’ tables and the seats of those who sold the doves.

    ReplyDelete
  84. Instead of insulting the author of this article, those for this principle or philosophy need t show its basis in the Holy Scripture... The Holy Bible. I have personally struggled with this teaching as I never came across the Lord Jesus or any prophets before Him mention or make reference to this term; neither does the Apostle Paul and all the Holy Apostles annointed by the Lord himself! So where is it from???

    ReplyDelete
  85. The dumbest thing I've ever heard, there's no such thing as spiritual husband or wives. If you're legally married, spiritual wives and husbands are nothing more than side chicks or a side dude.

    ReplyDelete
  86. I’m inclined to believe that spiritual spouses may exist.

    Reasons:
    One, demons exist and are real.
    Two, demons may not be able to possess a believer, but demons can attack a believer.
    Three, the bible’s description of demonic activity is abstract. Just because the bible doesn’t use the literal words spiritual spouse, wife or husband doesn’t mean its not true. A spiritual spouse is type of demonic activity which may fall with the biblical abstract context. For example, when Jesus met the man possessed by demons and drove the demons into pigs, did we come to understand implementation in which the man became possessed? No, we didn’t. People saw the evidence of his possession. Perhaps those who knew him most could tell you why based on his lifestyle and things he did.
    Four, the evidence of pain, loss, misery and death that one may experience in their life, may be demons attacking you, your spouse and marriage or hindering a single person from marrying. That may be derived intuitively without proof because a person knows the difference between what a spiritual attack feels like versus everyday cause and effect activities.
    Five, it’s a misperception that we live in a physical and material existence or world. The earth is spiritual place. You are a spiritual being and the state of your existence is temporarily in the flesh. There is no such thing as death because you simply exist. Your flesh only perceives a subset of reality by default via the five senses. For your flesh to surpass perceiving reality beyond the five senses, it requires a relationship with God or Satan. Your marriage is spiritual relationship in the flesh with your flesh spouse.
    Six, because your marriage with your flesh spouse is spiritual relationship (the two become one flesh), then Satan can easily substitute and provide a phony spiritual spouse or demon to supplant your flesh spouse and undermine your marriage and your life.
    Seven, for those who believe that a spiritual spouse relieves one of personal repsonsilbity, you’re missing the point. It’s not about personal repsonsilbity, its about demonic forces assaulting you against your freewill. It’s not like, the human being is making a choice to sin. Good men and women have no desire to sin. One is being attacked or assaulted against one’s freewill. Fight the demonic forces, win and be delivered through Jesus Christ.

    ReplyDelete
  87. Hmm ,i just pray u people dat agree dat it is nonsense,u wouldnt fall into d trap of d devil,this my prayer for u,u will never experience Dis demonic attack ijn .

    ReplyDelete

  88. By being molested,masturbation ( sexual immorality) or sex in dreams ( the enemy came not but to kill,steal & destroy, but i came so thay you may have life in abundance." John 10:10 & Matthew 13:24-28 "the Kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, 25 But while his men were sleeping,his enemy came & sowed weeds among the wheat & went away. 26 so when the plants came up & bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. 27 and the servants of the Master of the house came & said to him, 'Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?28 he said time them, 'An enemy has done this.

    something told me to read Isaiah 54 & I realised that every promise that was made to Jerusalem (God restoring her, being her husband & giving her kids) were the same things this spiritual husband is withholding from me.

    Isaiah 54:14 says "in righteousness ( which is the opposite of sin/prostitute) you shall be established; you shall be far from OPPRESSION, for you shall not FEAR; and from terror, for it shall not come near you."
    in conclusion, many are of the view that once you're saved, you cannot have demons etc, but scripture clearly tells us that you can be oppressed by demons if you as a believer, go outside of God's will & dabble with things you have no business dabbling in.
    read Matthew & Mark,you will see that "deliverance is the children's bread." (Matthew 15:26)

    ReplyDelete
  89. ask the Holy Spirit to teach & give you understanding of what's written in the Bible.

    There are figures of speech that will go over our heads, and as a result we will dismiss some biblical truths. spirit spouses are a thing. eg in Isaiah 54:5 it says "for your Maker is your Husband" remember God is a Spirit. & as your Husband, he promises all sorts of great things only if you're righteous & you're his servant (read Isaiah 54)

    somehow i was reminded of Isaiah 54; I've been drawn to this chapter (now I know why) since 2012 when my friends & I had a bible study on faith & I was given this chapter to share on.
    recently, i went for prayer & the minister said I have a spiritual husband, which I was a bit upset by cause in my head I thought why didn't she pick up the fear & and anxiety?

    note: God created marriage, and should be between one man & woman. there are certain things that should be enjoyed in a marriage e.g. sex.

    Genesis 2:24 "therefore a man shall leave his father & his mother & hold fast to his wife, & they shall become 1 flesh." -Spiritual law 1

    & 1 Corinthians 6:13 "The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 And God raised the Lord, and will also raise us up by his power (Spirit) . 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ & make them members of a prostitute? Never! 16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute(sin or unrighteousness) becomes one body with her? (This how a spirit husband is formed)for it is written, the two become 1 flesh." 17 But he who is joined to the Lord becomes 1 spirit with him. ( Isaiah 54:5 "for your maker is your husband") 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his body. 19 or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?"

    The above touches on how the enemy imitates God, and how he understands spiritual laws that govern us & he manipulates them.(search minister Kevin L.A Ewing) so how do you get a spiritual-husband?

    By being molested,masturbation ( sexual immorality) or sex in dreams ( the enemy came not but to kill,steal & destroy, but i came so thay you may have life in abundance." John 10:10 & Matthew 13:24-28 "the Kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, 25 But while his men were sleeping,his enemy came & sowed weeds among the wheat & went away. 26 so when the plants came up & bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. 27 and the servants of the Master of the house came & said to him, 'Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?28 he said time them, 'An enemy has done this.

    something told me to read Isaiah 54 & I realised that every promise that was made to Jerusalem (God restoring her, being her husband & giving her kids) were the same things this spiritual husband is withholding from me.

    Isaiah 54:14 says "in righteousness ( which is the opposite of sin/prostitute) you shall be established; you shall be far from OPPRESSION, for you shall not FEAR; and from terror, for it shall not come near you."
    in conclusion, many are of the view that once you're saved, you cannot have demons etc, but scripture clearly tells us that you can be oppressed by demons if you as a believer, go outside of God's will & dabble with things you have no business dabbling in.
    read Matthew & Mark,you will see that "deliverance is the children's bread." (Matthew 15:26) so ask yourselves, who was Jesus delivering all along? seek he first the kingdom of God & his righteousness, & all these things (deliverance incl) shall be added unto you. we can see an unrighteous Christians can invite ungodly spirits


    ReplyDelete
  90. This article is so profound. There is no scriptural basis for it. Some have quoted Genesis where the fallen angels slept with the daughters (Genesis 6:1-8) and had children with them. It was part of the reason Yahweh destroyed the earth.The Bible is very clear. There is no other record of Nephilims sleeping with the daughters of God. Where the Bible is silent let us not add extra biblical things.

    To shed more light on where these fallen angels are Read Revelations 9:13 - 16. Lets read. Everything we need is found in God's presence. The only mediator is Jesus, the High Priest Himself in the order of Melchezedek

    ReplyDelete
  91. Parabéns pelo artigo pastor Conrad, que continues sendo instrumento nas mãos de um Deus Redentor. Abraços

    ReplyDelete
  92. Can you explain how one was called the son of the devil or that he belonged to the devil. 1 John 3:12

    ReplyDelete