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Saturday, March 16, 2013

The Nonsense Of Spiritual Husbands And Wives

There are some things that are just unbelievable when you first hear about them. But then the greatest shock comes when you discover that almost everyone around you believes that those things are true. This is the shock I got when I recently heard about the concept of spiritual husbands (sometimes called spirit husbands or night husbands) and spiritual wives.

My wife and I were driving from visiting a home in the evening when I turned on the car radio and tuned to a local radio station. There was a preacher speaking on a live radio programme. He was evidently campaigning for an overnight prayer meeting that was scheduled to take place at his church the next day.

What I found absurd was that his panacea for everyone who called in was, “Come to the overnight prayer meeting tomorrow and receive your deliverance.” However, as absurd as this was, it was not the most shocking. It was when he began to tell all the women who were calling in to share their marital problems that they had spiritual husbands who were behind their domestic woes. I had never heard of this and thought the guy was just crazy.

Well, I am the one who was in for a shock. The following day, while talking to some theological students from our densely populated townships in Lusaka, they were surprised that I had never heard about this phenomenon. It was common talk where they lived and ministered. So, they took time to explain it to me.

The belief is that when your marriage is breaking up due to a husband who seems to have lost interest in you, or you have serious gynaecological problems, or you are having miscarriages, then it is because you have a spirit called a spiritual husband causing all this in the spiritual realm. It is also the case if you are getting on in years and no man is seriously approaching you for marriage. It means you have a spiritual husband blocking other men. You need deliverance in order to have a wholesome marriage or for your body to function normally.

Usually, the diagnosis involves being asked about your dreams. If you have either seen yourself swimming (for the most stubborn ones are marine spirits), or missing your menstrual period, or becoming pregnant, or breastfeeding, or vomiting, or going shopping or having sex with a man who is not your husband, or having a miscarriage, or getting married, or about to get killed in a dream, then this is sure evidence that a spiritual husband has entered into your life. You need deliverance. If the “man of God” tells you that you are having dreams in which you are having sex with someone and you deny it, he then tells you that your spiritual husband wipes it off your memory through demonic manipulation.

As usual, there are many benighted souls who are ready to testify that they went for such deliverance meetings where the “man of God” prayed for them to be delivered from their spiritual husbands and since then their dreams have returned to normal and their marriages are supposedly back on track. For those who were not being proposed, after the deliverance sessions they have found spouses and are now married and are living happily ever after! Sadly, there are many, many more whose marriages would have been salvaged if they had gone through proper Christian marriage counselling. These are the ones who suffer quietly and are told that they lacked faith or they did not have a breakthrough.

Of course, this teaching is gender neutral. Men having marital problems are also being taught about spiritual wives who are affecting their marriages. The only difference is that often it is women who fall prey to such nonsense—as was the case that evening when so many of them called during that live radio programme that my wife and I listened to as we drove home.

What shall I call this teaching about spiritual husbands (and wives), which is in vogue today here in Africa? It is nonsense! Here are at least four reasons why:

1. All this is not in the Bible. We have gone right back to the dark ages where we believe everything that “priests” say without checking it with what the Bible says. As in the dark ages, stories doing their rounds are becoming larger than life. Spiritual husbands are changing shape and showing up in all kinds of places at night. Even when these false teachers use the Bible, they wrest it out of its context. One such teacher used Matthew 13:25, which says, “But while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away,” to teach that spiritual husbands come at night to sleep with women!

2. There is a superstitious view of dreams that is totally unhealthy. If I am lusting after someone I am likely to dream romantically about him or her. If I am having problems to conceive, I am likely to dream that one day I am pregnant. If I am longing for a job, I am likely to dream that one day I land myself the job of my dreams. If I have longed to meet President Obama, I am likely to dream that I am having a meal with him and his wife, Michelle, at the White House. It is sheer common sense. Dreams simply live out the wishes and fears of our lives.

3. There is a failure to handle moral issues the way the Bible handles them. Those involved in sexual sin are being told that the blame is on spiritual husbands or wives and all they need is deliverance. Responsibility is shifted from them to some powerful forces. The Bible calls people guilty of sin to repentance, urging them to find forgiveness from God through faith in Christ. Many of these women (and the men!) being counselled to be delivered from spiritual husbands (and wives) are unregenerate. They need to be saved by the power of the gospel. Yet, there is no effort to show them that it is sin in their lives that is destroying their marriages. If the Lord were to save them, he would give them a new power to enable them to joyfully live in honour of their marriage vows and obligations.

4. There is a failure to counsel people with biblical principles of marriage. Women who were calling in to that radio programme, talking about constant fights with their husbands, were not being asked whether they were observing the biblical blueprint for healthy marriage relationships. Husbands ought to love their wives as Christ loved the church. Wives ought to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ. No, the “man of God” would go straight into telling the women that they had spiritual husbands and needed deliverance.

Let me say it again, this teaching about spiritual husbands and wives is sheer nonsense! It is yet another lie of the devil that is being peddled by deluded souls masquerading as spiritual teachers and preachers. They are blind and they are leading others who are blind into spiritual and moral ditches. Any teaching that is not based squarely on the Bible is not worth listening to. It is nonsense!

108 comments:

  1. Right on the money as they would say. Absolute nonsense.

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  2. Here is my suggestion. Send this article to the Post Newspaper for the benefit of many that might not get on the Net.

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    1. This is so true,the bible clearly states that marriage is physical,not spiritual,that's why there won't be marriage in the coming life because we will function as spirit beings
      Funny thing it the christians that are into such,how can a christian go for deliverance for such...there's no way darkness and light can mix,how can the so called spiritual husband function in some one who has the light of Christ in them
      My people perish because of lack of knowledge,that's what it is,people are ignorant to the truth

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  3. I think the only demonic activity here is what's behind the false teachers. It's so sad that people submit themselves to rubbish like this from ignorance. It doesn't just happen in Africa either. All kinds of pseudo spiritual nonsense gets propagated by the hyper pentecostals here in Australia too. People need to be careful, if you start asking for spiritual problems you will get them.

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    1. http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html
      Check this and think again. You can read much more if you want. Don't be sure you are right ....

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  4. Spot on! Pastor this teaching about spiritual wives and husbands, is as wide spread as sand on the beach. I wish you could also write something on 'SEED sowing' as offerings in the church.
    Cephas

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    1. http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html

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  5. .... and because your spiritual wife has been draining blood from you each night she spends with you, you are required [after deliverance] to "Re-fill" with a glass of what appears to be water prayed over by a prophet.

    #UTTER NONSENSE#

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  6. We are experiencing the same here in Uganda. I understand them somehow, that's where they eat from; they are serving their god called "stomach". Those who go to them for deliverance have to carry some good amount of money with them. Unfortunately, when we try to reason them out here, they start calling us names like "religious people", "dry people", "blind people", "false teachers", etc. But what pains me most is to see them outnumbering us. They are increasing every single day. Brethren, we need to work together as one body and revise strategies of how we can re-gain those lost souls for Christ. Blessings

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  7. most of ma friends believe in this n ts a shame.
    thanx fr this post it will definitely help me convince them

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  8. Apparently there is a whole lot of nonsesical teachings around Pastor; and I am suprised that you never heard of this nonsense.

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  9. this article needs to go in the post indeed.... Total nonsense and many fall prey to such lies

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    1. Spiritual hasband and wives are not nonsense. They actualy happen. Just open your eyes

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    2. Please indicate the scriptures in the BIBLE that support ur claim of spiritual spouses, because I have not found one. Thanks.

      Pastor Thompson.

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    3. Did you ever thought about why you sometimes hear people's tummies screaming. Did it ever occur to you that a tummy is unable to speak. People make it off as hunger pains which is absolute nonsense. These are the spirits of Satan. The sooner the truth comes to the fore the better for the universe's healing.

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  10. I pity both the preacher and his followers!

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  11. I appreciate your scepticism. But please do not be deceived. Our merciful God protects us from many of the devil's wiles and attacks that we don't know of. Do not underestimate the power of the enemy or his intelligence and do not rely on what you think. A lot of spiritual things don't make sense. Instead before you deviate people from the right path and spread false doctrine talk to God and ask him and as many times as he has proven faithful to me, I know he will answer you. Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. Are you pushing your own agenda or God's?

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    1. Please Miss Zie, kindly show us from the Bible, God's Word, this teaching about spirit spouses. But if you can't, why should we believe you? Should we believe what you think or what God says in his Word? God's agenda is clearly spelt out in the Bible and those who pursue agendas not in the Bible are the ones pushing their own agenda. Sadly, among those pushing their own agenda are those who believe in spirit spouses. I hope you can separate yourself from such people and join those who believe that the gospel alone is the power of God for deliverence from sin.

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    2. Study the book of Gen. 6 verse 4. Who are the sons of God and who are the humans they were sleeping with?

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    3. Abiding you have such poor theology.please read and interpret scripture in context. And please use your brains. Sorry if I am harsh. Genesis 6 mentions sons of God and Nephilim. How do you get evil spirit beings from that. These so called spiritual husbands and wives are not from God.

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  12. You are not qualified as a Pastor to say that spirit wives and husbands are none sense. Do you have a clue about deliverance? Have you conducted deliverance on someone with a spirit husband and wife. Have you read the book of genesis where spirits were having sex with humans and they gave birth to giants?Read Genesis 6 verse 4. Before you make statements like this check with the holy spirit. My people perish for lack of knowledge.

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    1. Spiritual issues dose not have qualification, is given by fasting and prayers

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    2. Abidini only God can deliver us. If you are a child of God that means that you have been delivered from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of light.

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  13. Allow me to say this. i have experience in this matter...

    i will tell you what spiritual wives and entities is all about.

    I am 40. not married. have always tried without success. and yes. many spiritual wives abound. but who the hell is a spiritual wife to start with.... and what are the other spiritual entities like spiritual husbands? There are also other that you dont regularly hear... spiritual children, spiritual fathers, spiritual masters.

    You could be a married man for example... but another woman, unknown to you, most probably an ex girlfriend, in their mind, again unknown to you about the mind they hold, regard you as as their husband. Mostly they engage some form of witchraft

    To them you are "theirs" and are always using their mental projections to protect their property as it were.

    They will pray or engage a withdoctor to see you don't get into "another" family or that your marriage is as messy and full of problems as possible.

    One such spiritual wife, we have a child

    We are not married.. and have very limited contact. But in her mind I am her husband. and we have a child.... making us a perfect family.

    Never mind she has to drop the child in some place for me to do visitation... because she is otherwise viciously conflictous. My husbandness is in her mind, not in the physical realm.

    That is what makes her a spiritual wife.

    There are other women too, from years ago who will call me up when they see me in some news. In their mind, despite distance and time, we are still together!


    But to understand better, and if you can stomach the real meaning, my mother was a spiritual wife for all her sons. Its okay if you want to argue and trash what i have said.

    A spiritual wife is not a real wife. It is a mind thing.

    You see my mother hated her sons marrying. She wanted to forever be in the position, and to be treated as one would treat their wives, by all the sons. Don’t wonder. She wasn’t motherly. But she wanted to be wife... remember all in her mind despite all the harm she was doing to us.

    I was a recipient of one of her curse when i refused to give her money.

    In her mind she was a wife to her own sons. A spiritual wife. Only us sons we did not know that what she held in her mind. But today i understand it.

    Mistresses and prostitutes are often into spiritual entities. Those that act like children wanting the man to take care of them like a child without responsibilities as spiritual children... dont get mixed up about the christian spiritual babes thing. Here the prostitute wants to stay at home or take up a dead beat job, that they hate, and use their time to manipulate the man to take care of them like babies.

    If the mistress is tyrannical, they will have a conflictous relationship while not allowing it to die. So they are spiritual masters. Meaning you obey and do what they want. And also they can hold both; some times being child, oher times tyrannical.

    I know a woman who cannot realease a song without a pastors okay. She even calls him her spiritual father. Now that is a true statement. Only this father holds her in bondage. She cannot exercise independent will. The father, is, in truth, an oppressive,demoniacal spiritual father.

    Spiritual fathers and masters are found everywhere; at work, a man who think or demands others to fail so they can shine, a business owner who thinks in their mind, the neighbour should not sell the same goods etc

    Again all spiritual entites will engae in some form of religious behaviour such as praying for the said failure - the we shall be the head-kind of prayer. Its all demonic.

    I hope i done my duty in clearing the air about all these spiritual entities like spiritual husbands. I have not mentioned any succubi and sleep stuff.

    How do i know all these... many years of struggling with spirits to be free of possession.


    Thank you.

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    1. Thank You Very Much.... I can't even beleive that the time is here where "Gods" very own are being decieved. Please stop walking with your eyes wide SHUT. The enemy gains ground while the church sleep walks.... Since when does the Bible make a conclusive list of demons??? Where?? And I guess many still think that sickness is soley biological and not spiritual also, right? Right....

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    2. So Webuzy,supposing that what you are saying is biblical(which is not)whose power do you believe in,God's or the devil's?

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  14. Pst. I thank you for the other good work you are doing in your called ministry however it saddens me so much to see the Body of Christ going full flagged against each other. Truth is that mostly it is due to the fact that most of our Pst's or Men of God think they are a total package of a body no. And NO. The head can never do what the foot can do nor the tongue what the spine can. On this topic sir i feel you swallowed too soon before chewing through the corn. No offence implied there. Indeed the Bible says they should do much more than what Jesus did. PST. My question is have you ever cast a demon like Lord Jesus did ... HAVE YOU EVER HAD A DEMON SPEAK TO YOU AS THEY DID TO CHRIST AND THE SONS OF THE MAN OF GOD IN THE BIBLE. Pls Pst my humble request is ON WHAT WE DON"T UNDERSTAND AND COMPREHEND LET US ASK GOD IN PRAYER MORE, SEARCH MORE AND THEN WRITE OR SPEAK. In this i think you spoke too soon. The flashy and catchy page you have used shows you started searching but you did not search much. If the bible says human birthed children with spirits who are we not to believe in ministers that have be given eyes to see before human nature. Why should you be the one championing a team of blind leading the blind. There is much more than marriage counselling and much more than the ministry of goodnews which i think you have been called to. Sir I pray you to search again , pray again and then write to us gain. Don't be misled by the 'I know better syndrome'... you may be needing help too. I want to say no one knows it all and also say yes it is true that there are wrong deliverance ministers out there and people must not take anyone on without being sure but to dismiss the ministry of deliverance and the topic of the existence of spiritual beings is as good as saying Christ never really rose from the dead. Search again and tell your flock to seek help and enjoy their Christian life in the Land of the Living. Search Genesis, Samuel and look again at the works of Jesus and the Apostles and see want the Mighty Hand of God can do. Never put God in a box and neither should we do so to satan. DON"T JOIN THE BATTLE OF WITS SIR INSTEAD SEEK GOD TO HELP CORRECT WHAT YOU FEEL IS A MISS. In as much as i know you are human who can spit out a whole of a mouth full I plead with you to be like Christ who will always be just by removing the chaff from the wheat.

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  15. I wonder why people always say something unbelievable here pls everybody need to listen i don;t have much time to write much but i have little time to set my point on.Spiritual Husbands And Wives are real but not as Webuzy May 16, 2013 at 9:49 PM say.He say only in mind but i want you to understand They are many spiritual kingdoms in Water and there is some department whom always come in a real world to seduce or bring people back to there kingdom known and unknown,Let me break it down,World made up for both people you can see and those you can not see,Most of water Evil always come out to fine there new members and initiate them back to water,listen how it's work.Some for people was initiated even when they are in a mother's womb,Some was initiated by friends.father.mother,sister and bother Now listen how its become Wife or husband,First let start with normal fact,If someone who initiated the other has a deep relationship with her/he i mean if he/she has deeply love with each other he/she can initiated the other as her husband/wife.By then wife and husband has come.Secondly Some agent for those evil water always come out to the real world like a said before.so when they want to come they change themselves like a real human beings,so when they came,but this always happen to pregnant woman,If they notice that child in the womb has a very bright future i mean good luck,or if that child should be strong man,or if she/he love that child so much,He/she will initiated the unborn baby maybe he/she may buy something give to her mother when she eat it the baby has initiated,Then from that initiation if they develop more love i mean going deeply in a relationship depend maybe after the baby has born and grow a little bit matured they may start having dream sex, then he/she who initiated the other may go more further if they build more love to have neither dream marriage or engagement as husband and wife,then each has become husband and wife if they go to that extent , Then adult, friends should be careful,Some initiated there friends like girl friends and Boy friends when they fine out they will not marry in a real life but maybe one will be a spirit in water kingdom and he/she has deeply in love with other one,he/she will initiated the other one as his wife or her husband. Finally You have to know that Spiritual Husbands And Wives are those who have initiated as married somebody or having serious relationship,or engaged to unknown or known people who are in a spirit {water}kingdom.Once this happen you are married in a spirit water kingdom as a husband or wife.Some even born a child i mean children how this happen? now listen,if you are having sex with unknown face or known face even some for this water evil come with there face in dream,if you are having sex in your dream know that you are giving birth

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    1. But the things u say.how did you learn? I think from some spurios doctrine teachers. I am not an expert in occult although i had reacged a point of making people fall under the supposed power of holy spirit.

      Just to be clear. Saying its a mind thing does not mean it is a thinking harmless thing. By no means. Those who understand spirit stuff know the crucial role the mind plays for all those incatations and intercessory prayers to work.

      All indications are that i am right on what spiritual wives are. Just like i am right everyone in my family and the mojority of extended family are sorcerers.

      Its just what life gave me. Webu.

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  16. for a kids,Why? he/she was in spirit so he/she always need you to be in spirit and the only way you can be in that spirit is when you are sleeping and your spirit will be free for he/she to have sex other enjoyment,then if you wake up you will fine out some thing like sperm if male or female you will fine out some thing that showed you have sex know that in spirit those things has interred your body if female then if male know that you have released a sperm into the water lady to develop a child. You know easy for spirit to see in real world than we in a real world to see in spirit it's hard for we in a real world to see in a spirit,but let me stop here i don't have much chance but i hope this will bring a clear understanding to you, not to think or unbelieving what is real,Some even got initiated from inclination,If i keep on writing this will be full for fact stories about this wonderful topic both signs and how you should know,many more things i have never finished with husband and wife but if you want to know more hit me up in my email jimbig29@yahoo.com, I will cool down and write to you all you need but am not a pastor or any anointing man for God i only have the gift as a 23 years old boy.Thank you,I even want to stop here something push me to tell you why this always hard to counselled or delivered because both has agree on it,Secondly because both always has a truth love in spirit without hurt,Because both has loved each other only in Spirit,Because both has gone too far,which only both for them and spirit friends know.because they have married or say a word that make them join together as husband and wife.In fact some even use there mouth join themselves as husband and wife but it's will be so strong because it's was in spirit kingdom,Even many for human being today was save by there Spirit husband or wife,Some got initiated when they are trying to get out from there problems,Some got initiated by there Spirit wives or husband who save them first time from there problems,Some get initiated in fact let me stop here, But know that it's real, Still happening in this computer world.

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  17. The author of this article is a spiritual moron and I won't blame him for being so, after all is a Methodist pastor as he said. The truth is that Spirit wives/husband exists and are real, so wake up and smell the coffee. It is called incubi and succubi, and they destroy lives of anyone they possess. Genesis 6:4 "Says in those days and after sometime, giant Nephilites lived on earth, for whenever the sons of God had intercourse with women, they gave birth to children who became heroes and famous warriors of ancient times. What did they do? oppress people.
    In Revelation 12:12 the bible says rejoice, O heavens and you who lives in the heavens rejoice! But terror will come on earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you in great anger, knowing he has little time. What this means that the devil has little time, and therefore, would like to destroy as many lives as possible, and they quickest way is through sex.
    Perhaps, you need to go back to bible school where they teach demonology, because this a model in theology. I can tell you where these things are more rampant in Africa is because of our polygamous and idolatry past. Rather than discouraging people from going for deliverance, please encourage them to go and get delivered, because it is real.

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  18. I feel its all been said. You have only shown your ignorance.

    This so called spirit wife/husband is also called spirit attachment in the secular world. And contrary to what alot of people think White people and people of the world, too have them. Even Muslims have them and they are known as Jinn/Quarin to them.

    What you should know is that its a demon. I too once dismissed this as nonsense until it happened to me. You may read my story on

    http://www.yourghoststories.com/real-ghost-story.php?story=10577

    I seek only to clarify and inform people of the growing danger that this phenomenon represents.

    You may reach me for more current information on Cephas66@hotmail.co.uk

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  19. only a spiritually ignorant pastor will say spiritual husband is false.check the pastor he may be and agent of darkness

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  20. After being in relationship with my boyfriend for six years,he broke up with me,I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem. Contact him now for your relationship or marriage problems via this email ofuaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  22. People, weather they exist or not we r not unaware of d presence of evil, but we shd all rejoice bcos He (Jesus) has overcome d world! Let's not trap our minds into accepting evil declarations for our lives!!! If d so called spiritual husband/wife wants to claim rights dat's 'its' beeswax! Wat does God's word say? He dat d son has set free is free indeed. Do u think Christ shed His blood so we can keep living under the law? We r in d period of grace and d sooner we free our minds of these 'diagnosis' the better for us. The new testament has been given so we can be transformed by d renewing of our minds! Also name calling is totally uncalled for, let each of us work out his/her salvation. My dear sister who cast a spell on a man, pls know dat anythn d devil offers ALWAYS comes wit dire consequences. When God opens his eyes it will not be a pretty sight. God ALWAYS makes all things beautiful at d right tym! It may tarry but wait for it for it'll surely come to pass. God bless us all and may He open the eyes of our understanding so we can walk in d light of His word as d children of d MOST HIGH! Let's be vigilant and prayerful!

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  23. Perhaps "spiritual wife/husband " is part of African tradition. Such demonic sexual influence is named Succubus and Incubus in European medieval lore, and is still in common language. The western concept of one's spiritual wife or spiritual husband is akin to a mystical soul-partner - the product of a deep bond of spiritual love, which is far from the fiendish (and idiotic) notion of a diabolical spouse. So it's regrettable that in some parts of the world the term 'spiritual' (as in ghostly intimacy) is degraded and its meaning, lost on the gullible, is completely negative.

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    1. Speaking as an African - aware of my own particular culture and traditions it actually isn't. Heard about it but didn't take it seriously when in Africa then saw what seemed to be an epidemic of it while living in Europe.
      Jason, the issues talked about here are universal - not African.

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  24. MY PEOPLE PERISH BECAUSE OF LACK OF KNOWLEDGE, I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU PASTOR WHOEVER YOU ARE. I WISH U NEED TO SIT DOWN AND BE TAUGHT U DONT EVEN QUALIFY TO BE A PASTOR. IF YOU DONT KNOW SAY I DONT KNOW OR I HAVE NEVER CAME TO AN ENCOUNTER WITH THE SITUATION AND STOP CRITISIZING OTHERS.

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    1. We shall see them by their fruits. Love, patience kindness, forbearance... This will tell you if their His or not. So don't swear

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    2. Go read the word of God, come back and respond. You are angry and in a way swearing...I am married, the only thing that changed my marriage to heaven on earth was the word of God and counselling. I get prayer Sunday to Sunday to a point where my husband packed. When I left that place, everything that God had for me, came into being. Everything. Read the word of God and ask the Holy Spirit to guide you. Gone are the days when Moses was the only one with the Spirit of God. Because When Christ died, he tore the veil and he said, it is finished. The word of God, a double edged sword. It gives life

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    3. We shall see them by their fruits. Love, patience kindness, forbearance... This will tell you if their His or not. So don't swear

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  25. The satan's church is not mentioned in the bible either, neither are Jehova's witnesses, neither is drugs or AIDS... so what? Satan is creative in inventing new ways to mislead, torment and destroy people... All of them need deliverance... Why should we be ignorant?

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  26. I pity the "man", too. What led Legion to dwell in the graves? Well, ... African reformed Baptist Pastor?

    Can you describe the form and shape of the spirits or things that went from Legion, into the pigs, if there were spirits that went into pigs?

    Can you describe the way they convinced the pigs to go down the precipice, into the water?

    If you will be really honest with your answers, please also explain to your followers if a spirit belongs to the graves, and when it enters the person, drives the person to go and stay in the graves, streets, eating from rubbish bins, going naked, etc.

    Now to make you aware of your spiritual position. can you not identify yourself with the people who came and saw Legion delivered and instead of rejoicing in God for the supernatural power of God, went hysterical as much as to chase the deliverer away?

    Do you likewise cast out evil spirits in your church at all?

    You need to read the works of Christ and his followers with an independent mind, away from like minded people, seek God's forgiveness for uttering on what you do not know about thereby misleading people, find truly Godly people and get deliverance from an anti-Spiritual(Holy Spirit) spirit.

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    1. Thank you i agree with your response. The bible says that 2000 demons went out of Legion into the swine space can somebody name at least 1000 of those demons(I don't think so)
      Most Christians have become experts at not knowing how to do it hence the bible says "lest you become deceived" James 1:22
      Whether its called a spiritual husband/wife or night husband/wife it does not mean it does not exist. Daily I help people who come for healing to get rid of these spirits that torment and rape them at night for various reasons. Just yesterday a woman explained how violated she felt after she was penetrated by one of these demons. The fact that some calls this nonsense is very alarming which means this spirit or spirits of this nature have free reign over him or them as they use denial as a firm of defence. The old adage says a burnt child dreads fire maybe some people have not been burnt yet.
      Theologians are dangerous minds as they ignorantly think or reason that the entire universe would fit into one book called the bible even all the libraries in the world cannot contain the enormity of God. Just the book of Genesis could take and has taken volumes of literature to comprehend the animals on earth
      Let's get understanding and stand against all forms of ignorance with love and wisdom for the sake of Jesus Christ Amen

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  27. The problem is that most people are quick to believe whatever they hear and conclude it to be true. They seem to feel forced to rush and form their convinction before they make a good investigation. This Baptist may be right, but he is not convincing at all. He says that the teaching of "spiritual husbands and wives" is not Biblical, but his own article calling all this "nonsense" is not adequately or may i say sufficiently backed by the Word of God. So he himself is talking ""words without knowledge"" as he claims the other servants of God are talking. ~~"Who is this who darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Now prepare yourself like a man; I will question you and you will answer Me." Job 38:2-3~~ That was God talking to all of us who talk talk thing without enough knowledge, and without enough conviction themselves! Minister Conrad, have you done enough research before calling the teachings "nonsense"??
    Do you remember that nonsense means something that does NOT make SENSE? If you say something makes no sense, it only means you have failed to understand it, that's all. Give us something concrete.
    I have listened to these teaching you call 'nonsense' with a curious mind myself, I am a Lutheran Christian. Perhaps the title of '"spiritual spouse"' is an error. Perhaps they should call these "spirits who enter you through ungodly sexual activities". I think it's a very interesting topic and you Mr Conrad should do more research for the sake of those you teach. Do not teach ignorance Sir. All Africans are striving to get rid of ignorance for good.
    1 Thessalonians 5:21 says ~~"Test all things; hold fast to what is good"~~ So do not hold fast whatever you conclude before you test. And testing means a good research that can take you even a year! Sometimes the devil hides information from us by lying to us it is 'nonsense'!!!! It is nonsense??? How? Why? Where? When? Backup everything you say with Scripture! Practice what you preach!!!
    Also, what you say about 'dreams' shows clearly that you do not know a lot about spiritual matters. With all due respect African Reformed Baptist Pastor, you need to do some educating yourself on the issue of dreams as well. dreams dont just happen just because Sir.

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    1. Harry i will your whole argument with this one point. If (that is s big if) you are a a child of God, a Christian, a born again, that means that God the father,God the son and God the Holy spirit have come to live in you. God and the devil cannot live in the same house. For satan evil spirit to enter a Christian it would have to kick God out first. Who do you believe in, God or evil spirits.

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    2. The truly delivered of Yahuah Elohim (hebrew name of the most high) and his son Yahusha cannot be possessed by demons but they can surely be opressed by demons.

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  28. It is true the 'flesh is weak' but the 'spirit is willing'. Read Matthew 26:41. You are right to say the flesh is also to be blamed. But who/what persuaded the 'flesh' to yield? Yes, think! Even in the Garden of Eden, it was through sex that the devil stole Adam's glory. Isn't it? So think before you 'ink'... before you 'click'. Ok.
    Listen, we are spirits (altars, intuition, conscience), and we have souls (will, heart, mind) and bodies (bones, blood, flesh). Our spirits and bodies oppose each other forever, because the spirit came from the breath of God and the body from the dust of this world. Surely marriage/sex isn't spiritual but it is very much a door/gate to the soul and if you are not in Christ, a way straight into your spirit. Yes! Why? How? ~~"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?" 1Corinthians 6:17-19~~ Amen?
    Yes it is either the flesh or the devil who is to blame for disobedience, and there are different kinds of strongholds, there is oppression, obsession and possession of the human spirit. Faith in Jesus Christ is a vaccination against possession. So most Christians have the problem of oppression and obsession.
    And be slow in saying this teaching of 'spiritual spouses' is "African". What's wrong with that anyway? Even the bones of the very first upright standing man was found in Africa (Arusha, Tanzania). Many great things start from Africa. Africa IS great! Many great things are discovered in Africa. Nevertheless i have also heard American teachers teaching on "soul ties". It is roughly the same thing. For example: Listen to Minister Terri Savelle here at ww.youtube.com/watch?v=RKkqKtZCUuY
    God bless you Pastor Conrad.
    Peace in Christ.
    Amen.

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  29. This is an interesting teaching to listen to. Am not saying you should believe it and conclude anything. Just hold your Bible and listen carefully: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpbYD14AjGE

    God bless you.

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  30. Marine spirit are real,not only in spirit ream but likewise physical they come out from water ream and change themselves into human beings, some even work in pubic places just to initiate people into there kingdom,and once you are initiated they will be following you up and down till neither you are deliver or you death or you become member.They also produce something like make ups,bring into the world and sell,all this work is to get people soul into there kingdom.

    Succubus are not marine Spirit, they is abit difference,SUCCUBUS can only come to you in dream,have sex with you and go till next time she like come back then she came without harm,But they can't harm you or course you to become poverty,or unsuccessful,even restless,or lazy,even if they incidentally hurt you,they will feel pity as well and ask of forgiving,they can not hold your blessing or favor,they can not treat your life only if you make them sad.They will even bring Good things to your way,so that you will keep the relationship and enjoy it as well.

    MARINE SPIRIT: they will broke everything in your life,even fine a way to course you to death,

    they will make you poor,

    they will make you not to marry ot have girl friend,or be in a relationship

    they will make you fine yourself so lazy and unfortunate,restless and stressful all the time

    they will make you frustrated

    they will make you become bad and helpless,no hope

    they will hijack all your favor,blessing,properties,Good things in life not to come to you.

    they will brought shame always in you,

    in fact nothing,they will make you look less in human being,even you are good to them or not.

    they will be treating your life in one way or the other.

    they will do all they can to make sure you didn't achieved your dreams

    and they will monitored you using like,House lizard,snakes,or any kinds for animal or object they like,just to make sure they block every good things that come your way. that's marine of you.

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    1. Care to provide ANY Scriptural basis for such claims?

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  31. Thank you Jesus for revelation...read your bible very well. remember how the storm stood still

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  32. HI you cannot say this is not in the bible. look for the Catholic bible ....... then look for the book of Tobit. there you will find a woman called Sarah who had a spirit husband who killed all her previous 7 husbands right after she got married....on the wedding night! then the arc angel raphael came and bound him up and she got SUCCESSFULLY married! i dunno how but i think such stuff was removed from the bible to bind christians...or to leave them clueless...
    i was raised catholic but i am not Oblivious!

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  33. Sex with ghosts exists. Read this book: Otherworldly Affaires (Haunted Lovers, Phantom Spouses, and Sexual Molesters from the Shadow World) written by Brad Steiger. And you can read this book too: Sexual Alchemy: Magical Intercourse with Spirits - by Donald Tyson. Ida Craddock wrote a book on this subject: Heavenly Bridegrooms. Look in the Bible, Genesis 6:1, verse 2 the sons of God saw that the daughters of man were attractive. And they took as their wives any they chose (the sons of God are spirits). And Mary had sex with the Holy Spirit - Matthew 1, verse 18 (World English Bible): Now the birth of Jesus Christ was like this; for after his mother, Mary, was engaged to Joseph, before they came together, she was found pregnant by the Holy Spirit.
    On the website from Gina Lanier you can find a lot of cases of paranormal relationships.
    So you are wrong with your opinion relating to spiritual husbands and wifes.

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    1. Mary did not have sex with the Holy Spirit pls. The Holy Spirit overshadowed her not slept. What happened was an anointing that causes positive turn around , like when someone is sick and @ the instance of prayer, or prophesy the sickness disappears.

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  34. I never believed until i became a victim!
    I now believe. I confronted, until I faced these. I believed and thought that God would always fight for me while I sit back, until forces of darkness started invading me in the nights. I would experience dreams I knew not what they meant. Funniest of all they came after rampant prayer and fasting and spiritual activities. If you have not experienced them thank God but see if you are lukewarm or overflowing in grace, or Compliant with the devils standards of Christianity. Dig deeper in spirit.

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  35. spiritual husband is a real thing im talking from experience,u even feel that somebody was sleeping with u,u even bleed after that

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  36. Spiritual spouses a re real! Even the Bible mentions the sons of God (demons) having sexual relations with the daughters of men and producing giants. If the demons could sleep with the women pysically, why would they not be able to do so spiritually?

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    1. Sons of God check luke 2. Genealogy of Jesus

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    2. Barox and John - check Genesis - the days of Enoch, then look at Exodus, Numbers, the Book of Judges and issues raised when Israel was comming into the promised land and has to fight the 'giants' and the Amalekites. Bearing that in mind look at Genesis 6:4 then tell me again whether you think there no categories of the sons of God and the need to redeem mankind following the fall and the time of Enoch was not the key reason Christ came to save us.

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  37. The saddest thing about this is the ignorance of the man of God who wrote the article. The sheep I can understand, the Man of God - I don't. You have greater responsibility Sir, to search things out before you make hasty conclusions. A person's ignorance or lack or revelation concerning a scriptural issue is no excuse for false teaching, especially if he is a shepherd. Just suppose this concept that you have decried as false is indeed a real happening in the lives of many, what have you done? Rather than giving these people help and hope, you've dismissed their real-life experiences as false and have kept the, in bondage. Rather then dismissing so ring you have no knowledge of as hogwash, why not search out scriptures, seek The Lord and see what He has to say on the subject matter? 1 Tim 4:16 -> Take heed to your doctrine .......... By so doing, you will save both yourself and those who hear you" was Paul's injunction to the young Pastor Timothy. Man of God, YOU are responsible for the things you teach your followers, whether they be true or false, whether they were taught in ignorance or not, so please beware and do proper research in the presence of The Lord before stepping out to teach anything. God's people are to be taught the true Word of God, NOT your personal opinion, no matter how sensible you think it is. The whole foundation of the church is built on revelation (Matt 16:18), not on personal opinion. Jesus said or did nothing except what He saw His Father say and do, even though He was God (John 12:29; 5:19, 30; 8:28). It behooves every minister of God to do the same, lest he falls into error. (FYI: If you are interested in gaining scriptural insight into this subject, you may start by studying Jude 6 & Gen 6:2 & 4 and let the Spirit of The Lord and Bible Study Tools give you deeper understanding)

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  38. I'd be interested in seeing if you have enough integrity to publish the truth (the response I just sent) whether or not it agrees with your opinion. A true man of God receives truth and correction in meekness; so I'd be interested in seeing if you will publish my comments. "You will know them by their fruit". Please understand, this is not an attack on the Man of God, I honor his office as a man of God and would not fight against authority. I just have a major problem with people who teach falsehood, whether in ignorance or not. God give you the grace to go beyond your current knowledge base, research the truth yourself, and arm your followers with truth. Amen.

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  39. Thank you, Dr Mbewe, for your truthful article. I have just listened to a sermon by the writer of the booklet (Dr Olukoyo) so that I could gain a broader understanding of this teaching in Africa. Scripture he quotes is out of context and his followers are to be exhorted to heed Acts 17:11. It is so very sad that many listen to this, read his work, and believe what he teaches -- so sad!

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  40. i am not going to say it is true or not but the big question many claim to be christains but they are just church goers so if they have spiritual problems what else do you espect.lets be real .it will happen to those that dont have the light of christ in them .and remember |we war not against the flesh but spiritual principalities.....cant remember the bible portion that stated that .finally whether spirit husband or spirit wife . allow the light of chirst to come into your life through the holy spirit and be completely free from any spiritual bondage.God bless.

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  41. i am not going to say it is true or not but the big question many claim to be christains but they are just church goers so if they have spiritual problems what else do you espect.lets be real .it will happen to those that dont have the light of christ in them .and remember |we war not against the flesh but spiritual principalities.....cant remember the bible portion that stated that .finally whether spirit husband or spirit wife . allow the light of chirst to come into your life through the holy spirit and be completely free from any spiritual bondage.God bless.

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  42. You are Ignorant...with a capital I. This is real. The spirit world is real....and yes there are sexual spirits...call them husbands...wives incubus...succubus...or what ever...but they are real...and you are an absolute fool to think they are NOT.....I feel sorry for your congregation...if you have one...YOU are an ABSOLUTE FOOL....

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  43. You obviously don't know what you are talking about. Before you write such a misleading article you should have sought God for clarity! People come on the net searching for guidance and answers and here we have this false teaching!...Woe be unto you!....Have you heard that saying "Who feels it knows it"?.....Maybe you need your own experience!...I pray for all the people who come on this page....I pray that they WILL NOT believe these lies and will get the help they need!...I rebuke and bind all forces of darkness over this article!...I render your forces powerless! In Jesus Mighty Name Amen!!!

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  44. M'am, you are correct when you say that people come on the net searching for guidance and answers. but the very troubling part is that they only want answers that appease themselves and not God. If the answer given does not line up with the word of God, we must dismiss that 'answer.' Our 'feelings' are fickle and we should always look at matters -especially spiritual matters -thru the word of God. There is really no need to talk down anyone because in doing so we dishonor God. We can point out errors based on God's word and we can defend God's word. He has never said to rely on our feelings but we should be obedient to Him and to trust Him. We have to prayerfully weigh whatever comes across our paths via a biblical perspective. We cannot honor God with our emotions -if they are not based on His word. May God be glorified thru His children

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  45. Either you are ignorant or you belong to the perpetrators. You are the one misleading people with your nonsense theories. Your analyses are superficial, too obvious and in consequence very weak. Because you have not experienced it doesn't mean it does not exist. You better do some research on your own on the matter before making such an allegation. Are you sure you work for God? Are you may be just unhappy that finally folks can go online and find answers to their questions regarding sprit husband/wife and direction to how to address the matter? If you wrote this article by ignorance, then you are too narrow-minded and shouldn't be a pastor to begin with. I pray that the Lord Jesus Christ who obviously has preserved you from the attacks of spirit husband/wife will answer you.

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    1. What you're saying, madam, doesn't even make coherent sense. Where in the Bible - the Book we claim is the Word of God, inerrant, infallible, sufficient - where does it teach this nonsense? N.O.W.H.E.R.E. Nowhere!!!

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    2. were the sons of God in genesis not spirit beings that slept with the daughters of man and created nephilims?

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  46. There is a kingdom of darkness that exists in the universe. It is an unseen realm and is inhabited by different types of beings. Some resemble mankind, some are in animal forms, some manifest as UFOs , some as giants, some as wind, some as light etc. the bottom line is: they are evil spirits. They all operate under satan and their main work is to deceive mankind and cause havoc in the lives of human beings. The bible is full of verses indicating that some operate on earth, some in the air and some dwell in the waters. The pastor that wrote this article most likely had no understanding of the Word as it relates to evil spirits and the kingdom of darkness. Evil spirits are real. If anyone denies their existence it means he or she does not believe in the Lord Jesus Christ because the Lord cast them out from people when he was on this earth. We as human beings live in different parts of the world, speak different languages and call certain things by different names . it is therefore not surprising for an evil spirit to be called incubus in one part of the world and “sprit husband” in another part of the world. The point here is that whether it is called sprit husband in one region or mermaid or incubus or pepo or nymph in another region, the fact remains that it is an evil spirit. It belongs to the kingdom of darkness and is most likely an unseen entity. The evil spirits that dwelt in the man referred to as Legion, what kind were they? The bible says that they begged Jesus to allow them to go into the pigs. When they entered the pigs why did they rush down the cliff to drown and end up in the water? The fact that they went into the water, does that not suggest they may have been marine spirits – evil spirits that dwell in the water realm. Who was the queen of heaven that the men and women in Jeremiah’s time baked cakes for. Was it not a female demon - an evil spirit most likely operating in the air/heavenly realm? Who was baal zebub the god of Ekron to whom Ahaziah sent messengers to inquire if he would recover from his sickness? Was it not a demon – an evil spirit operating on earth? The book of revelation says: And the great dragon was thrown down, that ancient serpent, who is called the devil and Satan, the deceiver of the whole world—he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him. This bible verse clearly shows there are entities operating on this earth in an unseen state – spirits. There are also spirits mentioned in revelation as frogs and reptiles are they not evil spirits in animal form? We as Christians are supposed to learn from one another. Regardless of how long one has been a Christian or his role in church, whether pastor, apostle evangelist or ordinary church goer, we don’t always know everything so before making misleading statements we need to inquire more, or learn more from fellow Christians. Those who have not had the misfortune of being tormented by evil spirits should not dismiss the existence of evil spirits or the experiences of people who have been victims. Spiritual husband or mami wata (mommy water) are just terminologies commonly used by west Africans to refer to evil spirits that affect some people in one way or another. In other parts of Africa say, Egypt, Sudan or some east African countries, the phenomena may be similar but the spirits are more likely to be known as Zar or pepo or jinni. In western countries, the middle east and Asia similar phenomena exist even though they don’t refer to them as spiritual husbands. There’s need for people to be careful not to be misled by statements from people who have no knowledge of certain matters. Evil spirits are real. They have different names and different functions. In west Africa some people refer to the as spirit husband/spirit wife. Some oppress humans in sexual matters, some lead humans to idolatry , some are responsible for false teachings, some mislead humans to join cults and secret societies, some propagate doctrines of demons, some are responsible for occult miracles, power and wealth etc.

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  47. @Joshua Debunker: A Fitting and comprehensive treatise on something that is indeed very-very real.

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  48. Dear brotheren. Just because you have not experienced it, does not qualify you to criticize. My wife and I are born again and love the Lord very much. We are still praying that we get deliverance. My wife has a spiritual husband who visit her at least once a week at night. She often make sexual groans, moves and positions in her sleep. when I wake her up, she will tell me of this dream having sex with a stranger, me or Pastor. we constantly have unexplained arguments which go away once we prayed. At night when we want to make love, the bed will vibrate and I will loose erection or she looses sexual desire for weeks. We love each other and we are bringing our kids up to the Lord. we pray that one day we will experience peace in our home.

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    1. Dear Muzi Gumede...do NOT disappear. there is hope for you and your wife...through the intervention of God... in the name of Jesus Christ. Your wife WILL be set free from sexual demonic attacks. But only God can do this. This is a spiritual battle...fought n the spirit world. God Jehovah can do this for you and He WILL do this for you. You need only ask...but keep in mind it may take a long time...because the demons are NOT going to want to leave your wife alone. You MUST keep your faith...and believe that God WILL Do this for you. No matter what you see...just remember the demons must leave in the name of Jesus...and also remember the battle is NOT yours...but the Lord's...you only need stand on His word...and keep your faith. And Muzi do also remember...this is NOT an overnight process. It will take time...cause these spirits will not want to go...but they WILL...just keep your faith. A healing WILL come

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    2. To everyone one that think spirit husband and wife is nonesince or don't exist. The devil is so pleased with u, u are thinking just like he won't u to think.

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  49. http://prideisamonster-leviathan.com/7155.htmlSPIRIT OF LEVIATHAN

    Job 41 is the key passage on leviathan. Most of the people who have this powerful spirit never get deliverance because one of his chief jobs is to block deliverance. Ministers who refuse to open up to the ministry of deliverance are being controlled by a leviathan spirit. This is their chief problem. Most of the people who fight the deliverance ministry have powerful leviathan demons, and are therefore rarely delivered. Perhaps one of the reasons we know so little about this spirit is because we do not get to tackle him as often as others.

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    1. Isaac - check out the book of Isaiah - chapter 27 - there's a prayer already written over the spirit of leviathan - also known in some circles as the serpentine spirit.

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  50. I just read your article Pastor because I am having visitations by spirit husband. I clicked on your website looking for help, but all I found is your denial of spirit husband, Honestly, you don't know what you're talking about at all!!! Before you dispense knowledge of a subject that you have not experience or know anything about, you should first pray and consult God and have Him instruct you before you open your mouth! You are in great error because you lack knowledge. You have a responsibility to know what you're talking about - INQUIRE OF THE LORD!!!

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  51. May God help those who have dealt with this or are having a problem with this.
    It also helps if people with these problems realise that these 'spiritual marriages' are illegal - which means they are non existent - just a fabrication from those who advocate the opposite of truth. Fortunately, this means they can't be held by those forces and are already free and should use that as a weapon when fighting that enemy.

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  52. Call them what you may. The experience is real. Many are having sex with spitirs in their deam.

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  53. Thank you Pastor Conrad for the article. It is so sad that we are quick to dismiss God's TRUTH in favour of myths.

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  54. What do you say about this? Try to explain something that people have experienced and eventually ... DENY... but with arguments not just empty words
    Have patience and read ...

    http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html

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  55. Spiritual husband and wife is real. I have experience this for years and witnesses my mom having sex on her own with no man present as a child so by real come to reality Jesus is the answer and deliverer thank yo

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  56. Truth be told, this Pastor who opposes the existence of spiritual spouses is spiritually blind and urgently need deliverance himself

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  57. I feel sorry for you all. You are all being deceived. spiritual wives and husband are real especially when you are sleeping around with lots of women or men you become one with them all in the physical and spiritual, . Sexual intercourse goes beyond mere pleasure or fun alone. It’s a blood covenant. God created sex for a man and a woman married only. “Do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” I am sure you dont belief in ungodly soul ties too.
    Whoever posted this know nothing about spiritual warfare, sorry.

    Base on Exodus 22:16, but not limited to it, please let me know what your perspectives and views are concerning the "blood covenant" and "bond" that takes place between a man and a lady whenever sexual intercourse occurs, especially for the first time.

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    1. Thank you, Coco. I agree with you. Of course this is real. People from all cultures and religions have these experiences. I too have had a nightly visitor since my early teens. The masculin entity is jealous and fierce but also protective and possessive. I don't have to explain what impact this has had on my relationships.

      Honestly I think this entity is the only one that has ever fulfilled my emotional and sexual needs but I also know this is very wrong. For many years "he" only visited me in my dreams but the last five years I have had my blanket slowly pulled off of my body and gentle wind blowing my hair away from my forehead when I'm in bed.

      Only resently I learned about spirit husbands/wives. I had no words to describe my own experiences before I saw a video on Youtube about the topic a few days ago. I know the entity and I have to part now and a part of me feels sorrow for having to leave "him".

      No, I'm neither mental nor out of balance. I'm just an ordinary woman living a quiet middle class life in North Europe which has a story to tell about my experience with a dimension not restricted to the physical world.

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  58. Blind eyes that cannot see what you can see or feel does not mean it does not exist or happen so learn Ephesians 6 warfare against the enemies...there were 2000 demons in Legion and bible knowing Christians cannot count even 50 of them = 1950 demonic ignoramuses...

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  59. Pastor Conrad, it amazes me with your vast experience as a man of God, you did not use Holy Spirit guidance when writing this article. I would expect you to respect every pastor, evangelicals etc. even though you think that they are not true representative of God's teachings. It is God job to judge. Yes there are some church pastors who do ungodly things, but you don't have any basis to condemn and judge them Leave it to God. Spiritual wives and husbands and other evils spirits exist. I doubt whether your ministry or you personally delivers people, if it was true, you would have a different opinion.

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  60. I whole heartedly agree with your article Pastor Conrad. I have read and listen to a few of your points and I believe you are swimming upstream in an environment where personal experience trumps clear orthodox Christian biblical teachings. I pray that our Good Lord continue to strengthen you and to let you know that you are not alone, you are in the forefront but there is an army of us praying for you.
    One of the problems with Christians today is that we don't give as much credit to the Bible and Our God as much as we do satan and his demons.
    The gospel is that Christ died was buried and He rose to give us Eternal Life. Eternal Life means that God restores His Holy Spirit into us and says "I will never leave nor forsake you"
    For an evil spirit to 'enter' a born again believer, that evil spirit will have to kick God out first. Because God and satan cannot and will never live in the same temple.
    This non sense about spiritual husbands and wives is just that.. no sense. And the notion that if you have not experienced it then you cannot talk about it is right up there with the notion that God doesn't exist because we don't see Him.
    I have read a few arguments about Genesis 6. And I must say that it is very bad theology to read into that passage your bias of spiritual husbands and wives. The passages talks about sons of God and Nephilim. How in God's earth do we get spiritual husbands and wives from that?
    And another thing is this notion that we cannot criticize other pastors or "touch not God's anointed' is truly nonsense and not biblical. We are to hold each other according to what the bible says.
    Good theology requires proper exegesis and not careless eisegesis backed by personal experiences.

    I stand with you brother Conrad as we push and bring back the basic gospel of Jesus Christ that saves.

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  61. My people parish because of lack of knowledge. This is real and requires deliverance. Some things do not come but by fasting and prayer. If you acknowledge that Jesus was confronted with various nameless demons you have to know that this occurrence still exist. It would have most likely been more prudent for you and your soul/spirit to research the validity of what you heard in full. Ezekiel 26-28 speaks of the "marine kingdom" and explains its effects. If you know Solomon's story you know he didn't fall until export from across the sea's was brought to him. Once this happen we know that Solomon fell to various sexual temptations. You sir have to do your due diligence or you find yourself on the wrong side of the truth. Research and ask for revelation before you go into rants and raves. The best place to research is finding out the truth about the marine kingdom and how they operate. Then compare you life to the operations of the marine kingdom and you will mostly see how real this is. By the way spirit wives/husband derive from the marine kingdom.

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  62. Not surprised all those calling these spiritual husbands unreal.I wander the type of postor this man is who kols nonsense.
    Its only becoz u havnt been victims of such spirits.let those with experiences speak

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  63. How many of you are aware that when you get one of these attacks that anything good which was coming your way - a job, an inheritnce, a promotion an award etc, that it never happens? Pray that you do not get one because you cannot see the spirit but men get u with nature on their bodies and women get up with their vaginas wet and a slight cramp in their loser stomach. This is how occult people sow sicknesses into people. How do you epain that women who had not engaged in sexual activity for many many years are then diagnosed with ids in their old age? Do you understand what the verse which speaks of the "enemies sowed tares while they slept" means? Do you know where sicknesses come from - the dark spirit world. Spirit husbands and wives are of the dark side and are generaly the old ancestors who are still angry that you have abandoned their idol worship and take on Jesus. If you are saying that you have never experienced such then maybe you are still engaging in private idol worship or you are an occultist who cast spells.

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  64. Have you read the parable of the sower and paid attention to the verse which states: " .... and the enemies came while they were sleeping and sowed tares". Spiritual husbands and wives are enemies of darkness that are sent to you to "sow tares - sicknesses in your body. The after result is that within 3 days you begin to feeel sick be later be diagnosed with a non-communicable disease; or be disappointed over something good that was to happen for you but did not hapen; or lost a dear friendship; or missed your fight overseas, etc. The spiritual husbnds are the old ancestors who worshipped idols and are angry with you because you are worshipping another God. Those who do not have probems with spirit husbands or wives are still worshipping idols. Some human beings make themselves spirit husbands and wives because you have turned down their advances and they will make sure that you will never get another partner. They will come to you ever so often. You will automatically lose any interest in forming a relationship with anyone. Such can do on for yers. Spirit husbands and wives are real. Those who disagree, I would have to wonder if you are some who act in those capacities as well.

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